im 17 i dont wanna hide nething from my parents...it'll b worst if they came to noe from sum other sources...they are a bit strict...n they noe the guy as a frnd of mine...but i dunno how they might feel when they noe v luv each other...
2006-11-07 20:27:50 · 13 answers · asked by koolnsj 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, there are lots of factors to consider. Do you both follow your chosen religions very very faithfully?.... like, to the exact letter of the "law"?
Do you have any idea if the other person's beliefs are compatable with what your house of worship teaches?
How will your family accept or reject this person? How about your larger social circle.... friends and business colleagues (for when you are older ok).
Sit down and talk to your Priest, pastor, rabbi, Mullah or whatever person leads your faith, and ask their insights.
2006-11-07 20:33:27 · answer #1 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the problem that I am facing right now. we are different in religion but we have been together for the last seven years. We don't want to lose each other we love each other very, very much.
But as time goes by there comes a need to decide on how we are going to get married. we cannot get married unless one of us is converted to the other religion. So at this time we are all afraid of loosing each other and don't know what to do.
So since you are young and if you have a problem with your family, you should consider to stop your relationship. Because things will be complicated as you spent more time with your boy friend, as we are suffering right now.
Although it will not be easy you should move on. You will regret this after it is too late, like our condition.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-07 20:50:22 · answer #2 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any problems in this.. People respect their Gods.. As long as the partner doesn't force the other to change their belief or anything, everything's fine then.. My BF and I have different religions but we definitely get along well.. Quit probing yourself on this.. This is not a major issue..
On your parents.. Hm.. If your 17, then I think they'll definitely understand you since they also went on this stage. If you wanna make sure, why not ask them slyly like 'Is it ok if I have BF? I'm already 17 and everything' or 'This guy likes me and I like him too' then from there, check on their reaction..
2006-11-07 20:41:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maximum religions do no longer make it impossible for human beings of alternative religions to love one yet another. The Jewish faith does not, neither does the Hindu or many of the different religious that exist on earth. basically Christianity and Islam seems to evangelise to hate in the direction of different religions, or perhaps then it somewhat is barely a small proportion of Christians ans Muslims who practice what's preached. Sikhism, Jainism, Hinduism, Buddhism, Yazdânism, any of the classic African religions alongside with Yoruba or San, besides as Aztec, Incan, Mayan, Australian Aboriginal, Confucianism, Taoism, Shinto, Pagan, modern-day and historic, besides as lots of others, do no longer pontificate hate, yet somewhat pontificate tolerance and attractiveness to different religions. basically Christianity and Islam have had a history of forcing human beings to transform to their ideals, besides as utilising intimidation and concern of their arsenal to transform others to their ideals. i'm hoping this enables.
2016-10-21 11:24:10 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If religions are stopping two person whose are in love from being together, then what is the point of having a religions? It's the God foolish or the human foolish?
2006-11-07 20:48:00 · answer #5 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not fair to your BF if you dont tell your parents about his religion if thats a big deal for them. He needs to know what he is getting into with your parents.
However it shouldn't make a bit of difference what they think IF you both really love each other.
2006-11-07 20:36:02 · answer #6 · answered by wildhair 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
religion is just a recipe to live a better life but it's not the real thing
put the religions on the back burners and let real life and love
take the priority deserved.religion would be evil if it went against live and love....
congratulations !
2006-11-07 20:36:05 · answer #7 · answered by dogpatch USA 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear it will may seem rude to you but you have to do some basic things
first let your parents know the guy bcoz they are much more experienced than u and have an ability to jugde people in first sight..
secondly
if he is of other relegion than i warn u its a sign of danger..it will be better if u tell us ur and his relegion but..its ok know listen it understand that u have to do one thing form given three options
change yr relegion
ask yr bf to change his relegion or
leave him
y will be shocked that Y
THAN DEAR IF U DONT THAN IT WILL DEFINATELY CREATE PROBLEMS FOR U IN COMING FUTRE THINK ABT IT U R TOO YOUNG NOW AND IMMATURE FOR SUCH DECISIONS
2006-11-07 20:34:09 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Hassan Hanif 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you're 18 to open your trap. Until then, you're underage and that gives them reason and ability to interfere...just enjoy the ride and keep your mouth shut until you're old enough to make decisions without them having the power to alter your life.
2006-11-07 20:32:39 · answer #9 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in conservative families it may be a taboo and you are still to young. try talking it out with your parents, religion is a matter of heart and so is love.
2006-11-07 20:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by L W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋