,BUT HE KEEPS SENTING ME MIXED MESSAGES WHAT SHOULD I DO .I LIKE HIM BUT HE DOESN'T FEEL THE SAME.EVERY TIME I ASK HIM SOMETHING HE BLOWS ME OFF. I REALLY NEED HELP ON THIS. I DON'T WANT TO LOSE HIS FRIENDSHIP ,BUT I NEVER STOP LOVING HIM
2006-11-07 20:17:45 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget it move on. He's a player and doesn't want the relationship. The longer you hang on, the less he'll care. Life is too short to keep dwelling on someone who doesn't care. You can get burned out after a while, like over a year. Take the word of experience......forget it.......
2006-11-07 21:09:24 · answer #1 · answered by silhouette 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The stop holding on to him because your making this awkward for the both sides.. If a person doesn't reciprocate the same feelings that you are showing, it is better to move on and if possible, be friends with the said person. You said before that everytime you tell him about your feelings, he kept blowing you off.. Isn't that a sign that you have to keep your distance from him and treat him in a friednly manner and not ask for anything more? Don't you even feel sorry for yourself everytime you are blown off?
If a guy likes you, I mean definitely likes you, he would make a move to make himself known to you and appreciates you.. I know it's hard to move away.. I'm not telling you to avoid him or anything.. Keep the friendship but put some space between yourselves.. Meet other guy friends.. This way you'll be able to know more about the way guys think.. Move on and stop going after a guy who doesn't like you.. Good luck on this and enjoy life.. There are moer things in life than your problems =)
2006-11-07 20:32:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the mixed messages????? The sad thing and sometimes the hardest is that special love may not feel the same way. Know that and except it. Feel good you can and have it in you to feel love for another. And why don't you try to play a little hard to get and blow him off. reverse what you are doing,
it isn't working. Maybe he will look at you a little different,
2006-11-07 20:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finally someone in the exact same the situation as me!! I know how you feel... The guy I like is one day all over me and I'm nearly 100% sure he likes me then the next day he totally ignores me. I've liked almost lived him for a year now and when he's not around I seem to convince myself I'm over him but as soon as he's in my view all these feelings come rushing back.. Guys can't make up their minds and it's frustrating. I drop hints all the time yet he still doesn't get it. What I'm trying to do now is avoid him until I'm sure that I'm 100% over him. Then when I am I'm sure I'll see him as nothing more than a friend. Try this too,
2006-11-07 20:29:03 · answer #4 · answered by Barbie73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey gal, not that I'm doubting you, but do be careful in that the mixed msges are not coming from you trying to discover if he likes you...
Do pace yourself, and be clear of your own actions, and see if he takes action. At the end of the day while he might accept if you "chase" him, caz its easier than doing the chasing, but if he is unclear about what he wants, its pointless.
At the end of the day you won't lose the friendship (i'm assuming he's a close friend to begin with) if
1. you don't start stalking him, and be pushy about it
2. blow hot and cold yourself towards him
Be clear about your actions and let him decide on what he wants to do, don't need to worry about the mix messages.
2006-11-07 21:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by hotchocolate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I gotta say you having the time to play with him and to actually involving him into a relationship are two different things. The first option might turned out good that you both equally love each other deeply and truethfully. But I will say most of the cases aren't like that. Second option, give him up, he is not good enough to be with you.
2006-11-07 20:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by zoe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pherhaps you were never meant to be together or he simply don't want to be engage in a serious relationship right now.
If he keeps on blowing you off that means his definetly not interested.U'll be better off moving on, there are lots of handsome lad out there.
Life goes on!!
2006-11-07 20:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by blueyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like a very nice guy if he is sending mixed messages. Sorry but a friend wouldn't screw with your head like that.
2006-11-07 20:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by dakota29575 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are chasing him. Most guys don't like that. you should be cool and you don't have to show him that you are intersted in him. you should talk to him the normal staff and see what is in his head. You can show him by sign and acting that you like him but not in words until you get his attetion. After that you can make him ask you to do any thing.
Good Luck!!
2006-11-07 21:00:26 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but that should honestly be his response.... If he says he doesn't, "What more are you waiting for?" If he did, it'd be different..!!!! Don't let someone string you along.... It's hard when you feel, easier said than done.... Just trust me, if he felt the same he wouldn't be like that....
2006-11-07 21:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by olivia_siharaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋