have you ever took revenge on someone a cheating partner or a friend i'd love to hear your stories and did it make you feel better or worse?
2006-11-07 19:50:06 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had revenge because he cheated me. My revenge was to ignore his calls and emails. It made me feel good. Showed the pastard what he missed
2006-11-07 19:52:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anais 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think life is so hard - what goes around, comes around.
There are quite a few people I'd love to get revenge on but I tell myself I am not evil. Doesn't stop me plotting but I'll never actually do it. And not because I'll get caught. I'm just a decent person, I suppose. I couldn't live with myself if I made someone's life a misery.
2006-11-07 20:09:29 · answer #2 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my hubby messed me around with a floozy, I filed for divorce. I thought out all these scenarios where I could get revenge against them both. However, listening to the voice of reason, I decided to keep my dignity, and not go the revenge route. I felt proud of myself. Now get this ........
The floozy has dumped him, his finances are in a shambles, his friends are avoiding him. Now that is the sweetest revenge!! Far better than anything I could have come up with. The wheel turns as they say!!
2006-11-07 20:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is good - it stops you feeling helpless when someone else has ended the relationship or moved the goal posts. It gives you ownership of the situaton. Yes I have sought revenge, yes it has been satisfying and no, I'm not going to go into it!
2006-11-07 19:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
in my view i understand for myself it does no longer. have confidence me i've got had very vengeful recommendations and it grew to become into relaxing to bask in somewhat myth yet i've got no longer acted on those thoughts. i think of of revenge as retaliation for being harm. i do no longer purely like the sensation and so why could i could prefer to inflict that undesirable feeling on yet another? I surely don't think that revenge solves something, in fact it purely escalates undesirable thoughts. Revenge and hatred take too lots capability, and it particularly is all unfavourable. via getting revenge you purely prepare this individual how lots they impression and have capability over you. Spend your capability seeing to issues that make you particularly happy.
2016-10-03 10:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by schugmann 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i got revenge quite a lot of times but then it didnt make me feel any better...it would just make me feel good for a while then i would realised that i didnt want to become like them by doing the same,and the pain was still there,so i stopped doing it.and now i like to kill people with kindness IoI
2006-11-07 20:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by pinky 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Revenge is sweet, but then again it's not because you always end up regreting it later down the line.
2006-11-07 19:59:09 · answer #7 · answered by phobzy85 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I got, to my friends.I did the same that they did to me but unfortunately, this didn't made me feel better.I thought that with the revenge I would calm down, but I was wrong, that was not the effect!
2006-11-07 19:53:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex (about 3 years ago) dumped me for 1 night just to go out with some guy to make me jealous i suppose.
Rang me on the end of the night crying on want you back i want you back so i gave in....
3 weeks later i pulled a bird in the pub (girlfriend wasnt at the pub with me) took her home and give her a seeing to, took pictures of us naked together on my phone and texted them to my girlfriend hahahahahaha - i felt really good!
2006-11-07 20:01:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
At first, it made me feel better. My ex hurt me once, i retaliated when we became a couple. He became my boyfriend even though I don't love him. So when he offered me marriage, I turned him down saying, "Sorry, I don't marry someone I don't love."
Hehe. Then a fiasco happened at the mall...two guys fought over me. They almost killed each other. Well, thinking about it makes me cringe.
2006-11-07 19:59:51 · answer #10 · answered by Emz 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋