i became friends with him bcoz i liked him alot and so that he might one day fall in love with me. maybe he has. he is my closest friend.but it hurts too much now and i cant be 'just friends' anymore. will telling him that i love him affect our friendship?
2006-11-07 19:29:21 · 9 answers · asked by L W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it'll be right to tell him about your feelings.
He's your closest friend, he'll understand you.
Maybe he loves you too , but he can't tell you about it , and only one thing he needs is your love.
It's time to move on!Go and tell him about your love ,don't worry ,we're with you!:):):)
2006-11-07 19:33:56 · answer #1 · answered by woo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always bad to be in a situation that causes you pain. You can follow one of a few strategies:
1) Tell him, maybe something will start (maybe not) but probably wont last.
2) Leave and move on.
3) Start hanging out with someone else, get this guy thinking about whether or not he wants a relationship from you - if not hanging out with someone else may make things easier on yourself.
2006-11-08 03:32:18 · answer #2 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry and tell him what you feel. Men are always easier to accept a friendship evolving to a relation.
If you are refused, however, then this would mean he has no interest in you at all as a partner. So if that is the case, you must face it too. I don't think this will ruin your friendship... If you are that close as you say, your friendship should last such an emotional crack...
2006-11-08 03:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by bogus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably affect your friendship, but in a good way or a positive way, you'll never know unless you come out with it. As well, you'll continue to suffer in silence if you don't come forward and put this out on the table.
2006-11-08 03:31:17 · answer #4 · answered by answerme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might. i did it and he said he still wanted to be friends. but i couldn't do it so i actually moved away to get him out of my life. now he loves me and we are together. and i'm moveing back home in 3 weeks. lol
2006-11-08 03:31:50 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
Almost always a guy who is nominally your friend really wants more.
2006-11-08 03:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably. But he deserves to know the truth...that way at least you'll never wonder "what if".
2006-11-08 03:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by sonnystylez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it will...if he hasn't tried to pursue a relationship with you, its probably best to find another crush.
2006-11-08 03:31:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him
2006-11-08 03:31:04 · answer #9 · answered by johneonykk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋