Ok, my ex dumped me 2 months ago (after a 4 yr relationship) i was thinking about her non stop until i met this gal on saturday nite, weve been txting a lot over the last few days, i aint really thought about my ex these last few days, because of this new gal. is it too soon after a long relationship to start maybe dating a new gal...? generally these 'rebound' relationships dont last, and will not be fair to the new gal... What would you do...? i would like to meet this new gal again soon, we seem to ave a lot in common.
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2006-11-07 19:23:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go for it, what do you have to lose?
2006-11-07 19:26:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, are you really sure about your feelings for her? I mean, it would be so damn unfair for the girl if you'd just use her just because you were dumped.
Think of the pain you've experienced from your ex. Think of the pain you'll going to make her feel. Would it make you feel better? Are you sure you're not looking just for someone to talk to? Analyze your feelings for her. Maybe you're just looking for a girl to talk to, someone to share your feelings with.
Like me, for example. I met this guy when I took up a course in Informatics University. He was really nice. And I was still hurt even though it was already 5 months since my ex and I broke up. I thought I like him, liked him enough to be my boyfriend. But then I stopped myself. Can I really love him? Or is it because I just see his gentle nature, his patience in listening to my grievances that makes me like him?
I stopped myself before committing. I don't want him to be hurt. And I realized that I just liked him because we had so much in common...
Good luck! And may you finally find the answer. Don't be afraid to love.
2006-11-08 03:31:48 · answer #2 · answered by Emz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always find a reason not to take action, but do you want to be the guy who doesn't do anything because he has a good excuse . . . or do you want to be a man of action.
Besides, the best way to get over a girl is to get under another one.
2006-11-08 03:27:36 · answer #3 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's probably a rebound relationship. we all go through them, but if you don't want to get back w/ the ex go for it. get your mind off the ex.
2006-11-08 03:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's ok and i think this relationship will last longer if you don't start comparing with the old and the new one
2006-11-08 04:50:16 · answer #5 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch... ive been the rebound girl and its not fun... ONLY ONLY ONLY if you are 1000000% sure you are over your ex... then she wouldnt be a rebound and something great could come of it!
2006-11-08 03:28:20 · answer #6 · answered by jcmodelchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is what it is.......if it feels good well what can you say? your x dumped you and that a lone could make you feel lonley and empty inside. have some fun and be honest with yourself and whom ever you go out with.....
2006-11-08 03:55:05 · answer #7 · answered by that girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no move on and good luck to you and your new gal
2006-11-08 03:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Ice Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should! dump the ex and approach the new!
2006-11-08 03:34:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it.
2006-11-08 03:26:32 · answer #10 · answered by Niknok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋