this question is mainly for girls:
there may be circumstances in a guy's life that he is just unable to marry the girl he loves so much, would that mean he doesn't love her in true sense?
2006-11-07 19:22:48 · 14 answers · asked by Rakesh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would say no. I would say he loves her very dearly but maybe he wants his circumstances to be better. A better provider with a better job, pay off all of his debts, buy a house. Maybe he is a care giver for his parents, maybe he is paying child support, maybe he has kids. Medical conditions. There are soo many situations. My thing is the man has to be honest to his girl about his true feelings and why he is unable to marry her. Otherwise his girl will feel unloved and that he truly doesn't love her enough. Be honest guys.
I am in a relationship with a guy who has told me he will propose and marry me but doesn't know his timeline. His father lives with him and is 76. His father works on cars how can he kick his father out to make room for me?
My boyfriend loves me like no other man has ever loved me. He has never given me a reason to distrust him. He answered my questions when I asked him about how he felt about me. It has made all of the difference. I will wait til he is ready. And maybe we will live together instead of marrying. I was married for 17 yrs. and am divorced so to me marriage is not all it is cracked up to be.
I hope I answered your question and this helps Take care. And just be honest with your girl you love soo much.
2006-11-07 19:32:18 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Rakesh
First thing is that if he loves him truly then he try to marry with him in any circumstances because nothing is impossible in the life, but if u think any thing is obstacles b/w the the way of marrige then it doesn't meant that he doesn't love her truly.
If this situation with u then tell us dear what is the problem with u why u not marry with her if u loves her very much.
And u ask this question mainly from girls then as a girl I told u dear in this world marriage is a sign of truthness, because marriage is a proof of truthness. Every girl or Society wants the proof of love
2006-11-07 19:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by care 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy may be deeply in love with a girl however he is not yet ready for a permanent commitment such as marriage maybe because he is still studying, lack of funds to support a family,or other responsibilities to his immediate family like helping out support some relatives, or he may be married already, etc. Why don't you ask him the reason.
2006-11-07 19:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the definition of love there is no mention of marriage. However to love someone at that "adult" level, u must show commitment even if the love is obvious, and the only way to show that commitment. True, u both might be in love, but as long life and law is concern U R A FREE MAN. If another reason is more valuable than committing to someone u claim to love.... I'm sorry to say that your love ain't strong enough... unless it is money.
2006-11-07 19:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not dependent on the circumstances. Either you love someone or you don't. Period.
If other things get in the way, like one person is already married or one or other family is unhappy, then that doesn't change the love, just the reality of getting married anytime soon.
2006-11-07 19:30:30 · answer #5 · answered by Bart S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it does not mean that he don't love her. He's just isn't ready to take that step yet. He's probably afraid. Marriage isn't something to be taken litely. When you take those vows it's not just mines anymore it's ours. When you get married you are suppose to be in it for life and you have to make sure that's the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. So no it don't mean that he don't love her it means he's being careful.
2006-11-07 19:38:52 · answer #6 · answered by Lost 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi rakesh, im amit frm delhi and have suffered from the same circumstances. i loved a girl for 4 years and due to some family problems couldnt marry her at this time. she did understand tht but still broke off very rudely with me and left me shattered. i still love her madly but i suppose she just forgot me and dosent care much abt me anymore.
brother, girls just dont understand.
but she is still a great person, adorable and a lovely girl. ill love her all my life.
2006-11-07 19:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by AMIT G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean the guy does not love the girl. The guy is afraid of the responsibility and commitment being a husband
2006-11-07 19:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by milkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. But if circumstances are affecting a relationship then the guy shouldn't leave the lady out in the dark.She might think you don't love her, but you must just explain your issues.
2006-11-07 19:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nemo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to direct this question at the men your are describing. Usually the women in their lives have no clue as to why he won't commit and it is probably widely different for each guy.
(besides, we aren't mind readers, and men usually have a difficult time sharing about this subject)
2006-11-07 19:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by kreative_ily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋