I was sure i did two weeks ago but now i'm not sure anymore 'cause i got scared to get back with him and get hurt again.Since then it seems like i don't but then after today i think i still do,i'm not sure.Same with him,i really thought he didn't care about me anymore but after today i'm pretty sure he does but i don't really know.I mean we've been through too many bad things but for some reason i still want him in my life,he has a really good side to him when he wants to show it.I do too but i can throw things way out of proprtion.How can i tell if i still love him or not??
2006-11-07 19:01:45 · 12 answers · asked by serenity 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The typical answer is you just know. Which is true. However, I also looked at it this way. Is he the man you want to go to sleep with and wake up to each and every morning. Do you ache when he is away and want to be with him to just enjoy his company. Do you feel loved in his presence? Does he only bring positive feelings into your life? Do you trust him? Has he given you any reason to distrust him? You can't build a relationship and life with someone if you can't trust them. Is he the first one you want to share your joys and trials with and can you be there for him and he be there for you. Do you love him unconditionally?
I hope this helps and take care. If he makes you feel bad about yourself toss him away and find another fish in the sea. Good guys are still out there.
2006-11-07 19:12:51 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is something when you feel it you will know it. When you love someone you put them before your self. You can only think of them, when you go to sleep at night they are the last things on your mind and when you wake up they are the first things on your mind. when you are away from them you wonder what they are doing or how they are. When you hang up the phone with them you want to call them again. they are the person that compliments you and makes you feel loved and good about your self. They will never hurt you and you will never hurt them.
If you are unsure if you love him then that is your answer you do not love him the way you should. if you want him still in your life even though you have been hurt by him, that is just that we like familiar things. We know this person and know the worse they can do and are comfortable with that. In order to find true love and happiness you must take a chance to go out there and look for it and to get hurt along the way. When you find it you will know it was worth every bit of the pain to get there. It is like having a baby when you are delivering it is painful but when the baby comes out you forget the pain as you are so happy and in love with this child it was worth it.
2006-11-08 03:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by lost_soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust me you are not in love with the guy,you are just afraid of being alone....its scary but you will make it gal dont waste your time with something that doestn have a future in place.From ur photo you look like a beautiful woman so hey dont sell yourself short
2006-11-08 03:09:31 · answer #3 · answered by biladome 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I tried to help you earlier, but you seriously need to grow up and not look to younger people for this kind of help! A good shrink might just be the answer for you though! Please grow up, and use a new photo if you think that is sexy mama material, you really are out of it!
2006-11-08 03:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have this many questions, you are not in love with him. More likely, you are in love with the idea of being in love don't confuse the two.
2006-11-08 03:06:31 · answer #5 · answered by barkel76 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your lack of certainty and your feeling of a need to protect yourself from that person provides you with your answer.
2006-11-08 03:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by FSJD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear sexymama,
if that you in the pic,. pull your hair till it hurts. if you feel pain, you have a brain. use it! you look like a good-looking girl. if it was love, you wouldn't be asking these chumps about it, you'd be giving advice! move on.
2006-11-08 03:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by leslie b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, if you did love that person, you wouldnt have to ask you would just know.
So i think i just answered you there.
2006-11-08 03:05:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree with the others... if you have to ask, then no, you dont and probablly never did. once you "love" someone, its forever...
2006-11-08 03:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by jcmodelchick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you really loved him you wouldn't be asking this...there is your answer.. oh and once a dick always a dick (usually)
2006-11-08 03:06:33 · answer #10 · answered by abc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋