I find so many interesting couples and some crush problems. I want to help, because a lot of people do come to me and sometimes I get stuck on ideas. How can I help?
2006-11-07 18:53:30 · 8 answers · asked by blingding 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to them and make them feel the way you would want to feel if you asked for help from someone about your personal problems I like your style its good helping other people, and you will also learn how to cope with your own problems. GOOD LUCK PAL
2006-11-07 18:58:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have found that the best way to help in those situations is to simply offer advice only if asked and only if you have had a similar experience yourself.
If you want to make enemies quickly and with a lot of people, then by all means be a matchmaker. More times than not, being such (even with the best of intentions) will invariably come back and bite you on the nose.
I, myself have learned the hard way long ago that the ones who are really best at giving advice are the ones who know WHEN to.
2006-11-08 03:04:48 · answer #2 · answered by calledkevinalot 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let love take its own course.
If people come to you for advice, it means you must give good advice. Just don't try and interfere with matters of the heart. It may cause more problems, and may even cause worry and stress that was never meant to be yours.
Instead of matchmaking others, why not find some love for yourself?
Cheers,
Peanut
2006-11-08 03:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by Peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my advise,,,, Then I think the best thing for you to do is to focus your attention on other more constructive things ,,,, Involving yourself in other peoples personal affairs weather you are trying to help or not could be labeled meddling ,,,, You ought to think about it before you carry it any further ,,,, If you are still in school then you are too young to be able to draw on life's experiences to give advise because your own life's experiences aren't that broad either ,,,, Have you ever asked yourself what would happen if some one took your advise and it turned out to be wrong ? You might be considered a busy body with nothing else to do ,,,, I think the best thing you could tell some one who comes to you for advise is to just tell them that it's their situation ,,,, They are going to be the ones that have to deal with it ,,,,, because they are going to be the one that has to live with their decisions ,,,, good or bad ,,,, It is not my intention to insult or demean you in any way here,,,, You came out with a straight forward question and this answer is straight from the shoulder so to speak ,,,,
2006-11-08 03:19:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch Dr Phil.
2006-11-08 02:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
here's a thought, mind your own business and take your own advice. when you give advice and match-make and it doesn't work out, women will resent you forever!
you're probably too young to understand what I'm telling you...good luck.
2006-11-08 02:57:57 · answer #6 · answered by leslie b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep ya nose out of everyones business. if theres a match to be made, its got nothing to do with you. who do you think you are, god?
2006-11-08 02:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by a_bike_guy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont do it you will only end up in truble.
2006-11-08 02:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by Mim 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋