Beautiful, mature, young, cultured, loving, caring, funny, serious, unique, future wife, future mother of my children; Havent met.
What?! Still havent met?!
She e-mailed me replying to a previous post of mine in a popular arabic music site asking for a specific song that I had claim to have. Thats where it started. Exchanged pictures, the attraction is mutual. We both express feelings of anxiousness, of wanting eachother. We are both still at home with parents, ready to head off to college soon. Im in Massachusetts, shes in Georgia. We haven't met. But Im willing to take a bus and see her at her command. Thinking about heading to college in Georgia now. I want to be closer to her. Been talking less then two weeks. Do you think Im going too fast? I cant deprive myself of the possibility of meeting my possible future wife. What do you guys think? The hell with it and pack up and head south( I have nothing to loose). Or?(You tell me) Just some feedback would be great!
2006-11-07 18:12:39 · 8 answers · asked by Lookin4Answers 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey i know this sounds funny but i know EXACTLY wat ur talking about...the attraction, and how strongly you feel and yet u havent met. I met a man like that and we ended meeting after a year, we live in different countries. we got on even better iin person, and the attraction was out of this world. Why arent we together?
I fell in love, and he didnt.
It could work, so long as ur both into it.
2006-11-07 18:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m not a guy, but I`d like to give u my opinion. SLOW DOWN !!
2 weeks is not long enough to get to know someone in person, much less by e-mail. What is the rush ? You haven`t even met one another yet and ur ready to go to school in GA. Has she invited u to visit her? What about her parents....do they know all the details. She may be a minor, like 14 or 15 yrs. old. Don`t u realize that online u can be anything u want to be, but in real life things may be quite different. Take ur time, correspond a bit longer and if the feelings r mutual, then she isn`t going anywhere. If and when she asks u to come meet, then perhaps u can go for a weekend. Then and only then, can u both decide if u want to continue the relationship.
2006-11-07 18:48:41 · answer #2 · answered by flamingo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first of all YES you're going too fast, it's only been two weeks!second, you haven't met her ( which is dangerous), yeah it's ok if you meet her so you could know her better, but you don't have to be so seriuos with her just after two weeks!, one thing more if your afraid of loosing her ( if she is the one?!),don't be that's one of the reason's why people end up with the wrong people ( feeling they will loose the chance and will never get another)
2006-11-07 18:22:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its too fast.. wait for like at least 2 months. and 2 months is already short. if you want you can visit her over the weekend, see how shes like in person.
i have a friend who met a briton dude like for less than 3 months. went all over to britain for him. anyway he came back w/ her.
i forgot to tell you shes not divorced yet. hes a good guy though.
2006-11-07 18:15:19 · answer #4 · answered by bipolarbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two weeks isnt a long time,couldnt you meet with out changing all your plans keep e mailing and ifs its meant to be then it will happen
2006-11-07 18:17:58 · answer #5 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
somthing that is ment to work out.... will.
you can always try to make it last longer...
but think about the outcome at the end and
think if its really worth the time.
2006-11-07 18:15:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it boy....there's no harm in trying, she might be or might not be the one for you....
2006-11-07 18:16:44 · answer #7 · answered by (◕‿◕✿) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it
2006-11-07 18:18:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋