i have Gf on Philippine's and i love her and now i am in Iran and i fall again for my first love what can i d

Question

i went 8 years ago to philippiens and leave my first love and tell her that after my study i will be back but after 3 years we lost contact so i fall in love whit a philippina girl we love each other so much so one day i deside to come back to iran to see my family but i accsidentaly me and my first love see each other and i found out that she still love me and they hade a very big problem befor the reason why we lost contact first love never die in my case sa i love bouth and i cant choose what can i do coz i dont whant to brake no ones hearth help me people

Answer 1

Dump either one of them!You'll only hurt both of them if you continue this. You do not love both of them (How can you give your 100% to both?)

I suggest you be honest to both and accept whatever it is they decide to do.

Btw, you have bad English.

Answer 2

First of all you are right, the first love never dies. You have to decide who you want to be with in your future. I still have a big place in my heart for my first love, but through the years he became the man I did not want in my future as my love, only my friend. A lot of things can change over time, including yourself. Most importantly you need to tell the other women. Any one that loves will have their heart broke at least a couple of times in their life. It means that you have feelings and a heart. Only time will heal a heart. One of the two will be heart broken, but don't let them think they are waiting for something that might not happen. You have to talk it out with the one you choose not to be with, and let her down easy. Make sure you talk face to face to give her the respect she deserves, and let her know that deep in your heart there will always be a place for her, but you life is taking you in another direction. Don't let to much time pass, or it will all turn to hate.

Answer 3

Theres only one thing you can do ask yourself who you really love and (who really love you) then be honest to tell the other your situation, yeah i know it's hard but think of what's going to happen if you won't do this:

FIRST: you'll hurt both of them ( which you don't want to happen!)

SECOND: you'll loose both of them ( which you don't want either?!)

LASTLY: you'll feel sorry and regret it that you did not do the right thing.

JUST MAKE SURE YOU CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE AND NO LIES...

GOODLUCK............

Answer 4

Well you're going to have to tell her the truth. The truth might hurt but don't waste her time. Allow her to move on with her life.

Answer 5

don't just believe her....try the relationship again and see if all is the same....3 years is alot of time....alot of things happened u just ahev to re assess what u have and see if u can bring back the old flame