Chances are you are playing her to feed your own ego. What are YOU doing to encourage her behavior? Be nice. Tell her you do not feel any chemistry towards her. That's all. Then avoid seeing her and contacting her in any way. Don't take her calls, don't respond to her emails.
2006-11-07 18:11:02
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answered by BeenThereDoneThat 2
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Sounds like a hard situation.
I know its gotta be difficult to let the girl know.
do be careful about her feelings though.
maybe try to hang out with her and keep your
distance, let her know your more of a friend type.
think about some single friends and try to hook them
up. if it eventually comes down to telling her and theres
no other wayy, then just flat out tell your feelings and let
her know that your not intrested. UNless you are intrested.
but im thinkn your not. But really all i think you can do is
let her know how you feel. after that if it still effects you then
your gunna have to ignore it the best that you can. dont reply to her messages and maybe stop picking up the phone. whatever
you do, DONT give her false hope. because thats never good.
GOODLUCK! = ]
2006-11-08 02:09:40
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answered by pickelsnmustard 2
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You need to state in no uncertain terms that you are not interested. She will take any contact she has with you and read into what she wants to believe - i.e. that you like her - and will then continue her behaviour. Have the talk.
If it doesn't stop and become a nuisance, you might have to get legal advice on harassment and send her a legal warning letter through your solicitor.
2006-11-08 01:57:44
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answered by Nat R 2
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are you sure you never flirted with her?
do you have a relationship with her?
if so, have you at any chance lie to her?
then it's the way you treat her that makes her do those crazy little acts.
don't blame it all to her. it will be so unfair.
ask her why she's doing it, what makes her do it...
analyze the situation put yourself into her shoes
put little understanding. you know it's so hard to let go
if you love someone... and i guess, she loves you that much.
don't let her go that fast... you'll never know what will happens
next. what if you do love her? it will be too late if you'll impulsively decide...
2006-11-08 02:12:07
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answered by Anonymous
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Tell her that you dont like her and for her to stop. If you see, hear her cry, get jealous, get mad, etc...it's because you continue to talk to her so she thinks you must 'want' her in your life, that you 'do' like her. You obviously don't let her know that you don't like her...you want it to end? Tell her flat out and stop talking to her and tell her to leave you be. Good luck.
Peace.
2006-11-08 01:56:30
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answered by Anonymous
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I think you should talk to her. I think that you did it! But do it again. You should try to explain that you don't like her actions, the more she does them, the more you hate her. You have to do! Because she would bother you for a long time if you don't say anything.
2006-11-08 01:58:54
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answered by Moonie Mun 2
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Oh man, dump her on someone else, preferably someone you dont care for too much. Sounds like a nightmare that will just get worse, and worse.
2006-11-08 02:03:24
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answered by John P 3
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Run fast. Sounds like this girl has more issues than sports illustrated.
2006-11-08 01:54:18
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answered by Karma 6
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Be honest with her and tell her how you feel about her and things she is doing.If possible try to be aware of not hurting her feelings but make sure you make your point that you want her to stop.
2006-11-08 01:58:35
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answered by oasis 2
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introduce her to one of your mates , get her real pissed and put her in his bed. When she wakes up she will think that she played up on you and will leave you
2006-11-08 01:54:07
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answered by clin u 1
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