my boyfriend has a pic of his ex girlfriend what should i do?

Question

ok well my man has a pic. of his ex on his myspace the pic has that message thing n it says my girl n his sta. says single i dont know what 2 do!! n i dont want him 2 know i was in his myspace

Answer 1

Juliana, why are you worried..maybe since dating you he hasn't bothered to go on my space...whens the last time he updated it...and as far as the pic goes...she will always be a part of his past pic or not...don't worry about it...if you desire to see your pic on his space send him one...and tell him that he can use it on his space if he wants to...maybe he hasn't got one of you?

Answer 2

Tell him you were just looking on myspace. There's nothing wrong with that, everyone does it. Since you're his girlfriend, you just wanted to go on and see him, and maybe even send him a message. See when was the last time he logged on.......maybe he hasn't been on for a while to change it. Either way, you should ask him about it so he can take the picture down or give you an explanation. If you don't confront him you will just drive yourself crazy, and you weren't doing anything wrong anyways.

Answer 3

There is nothing wrong with looking at his myspace. Come on...it's public. Maybe he hasn't updated it in a while. Talk to him about it and ask him kindly to remove the pic of his ex.

Answer 4

Ask him about it. If he is on myspace, saying he is single, even though he is with you, then he isn't on there for the right reasons. As for the pic pf his ex, that sounds dodgy to me, why doesn't he have one of you on there? Maybe he still has feelings for her or something. Best thing for you to do is confront him about it.

Answer 5

Let it be for now. There is nothing to discuss here,is it? Okay he has her photograph with a message and his profile says Single, so what? It proves nothing. Until you have more solid proof, do not worry over it. Perhaps, he does not want to say he has a gf (you) until you are married because he has had taste of relationships turning sour. And perhaps your children will laugh together with you seeing the photo of his ex-gf as he narrates his sad love story. It is a memento, a part of his life that is now his past but you know about it, don't you. If you are comfortable with his past, do not think that something as simple as her photo reflects something about his feelings for you. No, he is yours now and will always be yours. In case you find other more concete proof, you can always discuss about it with your bf.

Answer 6

Why don't you want him to know? He can't expect myspace to be private or confidential. It's a public site, and you have the right to visit his page.

As a side, my partner has pictures of exs as well. Though, he is a photographer. I really don't mind.

Answer 7

When he goes out with his mates you should get the picture and hang it up in the garage and throw darts at her. You could score yourself 100 points if you hit her between the eyes with the dart

Answer 8

Why shouldn't you look at his myspace page? That's what it's there for. I'd ask him to remove it, if he won't you know where you stand.

Answer 9

n-i-c-e


tell him you found the pic and you think she's hot and that you want to have a 3-some. then when he opens up, ask him if he still thinks of her, lure him into telling the truth, then when you find out that he's still in love with her, then dump him.

Answer 10

try not to let it bother you it at least means he is a caring person and why should you always throw everything in your past away it makes you who your are today