it gets so frustrating sometimes i'm naturally the girl who is a friend type like i have a lot of guy friends but no matter how many guys i meet they always see me as the girl next door like i'm one of the guys they recognize i have a couple of different body parts but it's irrelavent none of the guys i like ever like me how do i get past being the girl with lots of friends who are boys but never any boyfriends??
2006-11-07 17:18:36 · 11 answers · asked by amuch2much 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i shouldn't freak over this but it's like i constantly feel out of place when i see my friends with their guys or hear them talk about their boyfriends it makes me wonder how they can get one but i can't i meet decent guys but they're not interested it makes me feel overlooked and inadequate like i'm not much to look at i've got a good personality and all the basic qualities that would make me a kick *** wife but whats the use if i can't get any guys to notice me?
2006-11-07 17:34:58 · update #1
You have the same problem that I had. That's not a bad thing, though. If you want to catch a specific guy's attention, just make the first move. I think they act that way because either they're afraid of loosing your friendship if you don't like them as boyfriends or you're not their girl I guess! Take a risk by flirting with the guy you like and see what happens. Maybe you'll be seeing yourself with a new boyfriend instead of another boy friend. Good luck!
2006-11-07 17:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what you look like so i cant really say do you dress like one of the guys i don't think there is anything wrong with the girl next door type maybe you should have said how do i stop looking like one of the boys maybe you should ask a boy out that you really like if you don't like any of the boys you know in that way you will find one some day there is nothing wrong with being the girl next door type just be a girl and do girl things so you will be noticed as a girl and not just another one of the guys try wearing a dress i bet they wouldn't see you as one of the guys then. good luck i wish you a life full of love and happiness i know you have a long life ahead of you have fun too.
2006-11-07 17:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why even bother about what they think, and why the sudden rush for having a boyfriend, its great to have many friends along the way dont see that as an obstacle, and having a boyfriend should not be a trend or game to you, have a boyfriend when you are in love, dont have a relationship with a guy just because he sees you as someone more than the girl next door,if someone falls in love with you and you like him too then there comes your boyfriend, but never, never change your image just so they could like you, never sell yourself short just to have a boyfriend, have some pride and dignity for yourself
2006-11-07 17:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you're being too hard on yourself!!!!!
you're seeing yourself as the girl next door and thinking that's a bad thing, when it's totally not!!!!!
you have to realize that there are guys who probably want to ask you out, but think that you only see them as the guys next door.
work on your self confidence, and keep your chin up! and start flirting a little with the guys instead of just hanging out with them as one of the guys. I promise, it won't be long before some of them will take a longer look at you and realize that they want to be more that just your buddy! keep working on that self confidence!
Good Luck to you
2006-11-07 17:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first let me make you understand something,the girl next door starts out as a friend but like me when you look back on it the girl next door is the one you should have brought home to momma but by the time you realize this she has moved away and you spend your whole life looking for her telling yourself if i ever find the girl next door again i will never let her leave so if you are that girl next door don't change because men like me are looking for you (love you next door)
2006-11-08 01:23:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I thought being the girl next door was good. Every see the movie The girl next door"? LOL
2006-11-07 17:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of you're extremely naive approximately 'varieties' Any 'style' can like the different 'style' Altho he might fall into the 'badboy' style, he's a guy or woman, along with his very own likes and dislikes there is obviously something approximately you that appeals to him.
2016-11-28 02:53:26 · answer #7 · answered by kocaker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just a trait you carry, you can't make anyone see you a certain way. That's just the way they see you. Sorry.
2006-11-07 17:21:32 · answer #8 · answered by CMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself and be more confident. Maybe you have to make the first move girlie
2006-11-07 17:21:17 · answer #9 · answered by lisa_dahme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dressing more slutty, trust me, you will shed that girl next door image quick.
2006-11-07 17:25:16 · answer #10 · answered by Vince 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋