We've known each other for a long time now but he's company assigned him somewhere else. We have mutual attraction eversince but we never had the chance to be together. But through constant communication, the feelings grew deeper. Do you guys think what we have now is really love?
2006-11-07 15:53:26 · 14 answers · asked by mashka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it is not love. It's what you both think COULD be love. And you are both in love with the idea of being in love. You have an attraction but you never had a chance to be together. You ARE both growing closer together. But it's when you see each other in person, that you will have to find out of it is love. You are texting each other and emailing, that tells you practically nothing. Can you at least talk on the phone? Are you fullfilling each other's needs? You can only do that when you are there in person.
2006-11-07 17:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by wondering 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have never met each other and you have developed liking for each other by way of communications & chatting, it could very well be love.
The problem is that the strong feelings of missing someone might get you to be very attached to someone even if you have known someone very well before the separation. This is applicable even to the cases where living together people develop disliking for each other. The fact is that when we are together we try to find out what is missing in the other person and very ironically, when the same person is out of sight, we try to find what was there in the person. Well that is human nature & expectations...
In your case, you might have developed liking or even feelings of love for each other by talking but the real thing would be - if you decide to live together by way of marriage or long term relationships, as the case may be with your country or community - staying together. You 'know' only a part of the overall personality of each other and you would come know even more than that when you stay togethere. So, it would e better to meet & know each other before you conclude anyways. Of course, if you two have been right and honest, there is no risk, whatsoever in trying this. Otherwise also, you would be able to decide, if it is other way round.
So, GOOD LUCK.
2006-11-07 18:38:06 · answer #2 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would argue that no, this isnt "love", but rather a deeper friendship due to the amount of time you are spending "talking" to each other. I feel that love develops naturally when two people spend time together, physical bonds lead to emotional bonds. I dont think you can ever really "know" a person though mere communication in two different locations, despite the fact thay you may have been friends prior to this, this is not "love", it is friendship (a differernt type of bond). What you have now may lead to love in the future, if you spend time physically together, but it is not love right now. Good luck!
2006-11-08 14:45:55 · answer #3 · answered by ophierose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to ask yourself if it is really love? I do believe you can fall in love with someone who you only talk to by texting & etc. But if you really want to know if it is love then ask yourslef a few things like: is he constantly on your mind, could you see yourself with him for the rest of your life and things like that.....if you can answer these questions then it is very possible that this is love.....you need to figure out a way to get together and really get to know each other...b/c sometimes people can seem to be a great person and then just turn out to be a big disappointment....
2006-11-07 17:33:59 · answer #4 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
easily I easily have considered many human beings try this to themselves on line. They chat with somebody who shows them basically their best area and in many situations lots of this is invented interior the messenger. Then human beings grow to be infatuated with their new imaginary buddy. So many times hopes are dashed on assembly no longer lots because of the fact the guy isn't so appealing or handsome as they represented themselves to be yet because of the fact they at the instant are not as advantageous as they have been alleged to be. i might recommend it somewhat is extremely available to delude oneself into questioning one replaced into in love yet actual love comes with understanding one yet another tolerating each and each others actual international flaws and is derived after being around one yet another for a substantial volume of time. So ummm NO.
2016-10-21 11:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he is just messing with your head and what he is writing is a bunch of lies your relationship could be better than if you were together. Some people are much sweeter in emails than they are in person. However I don't think what you have now is love. But it could be a very good start.
2006-11-07 17:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is very much possible based on following points :- Both discuss points with each other seriously. their likings are matching each other. both agree on points raised by them self.
2006-11-07 17:54:44 · answer #7 · answered by slimshady3in 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is true people have the relation without seeing eachother ...me and my girlfriend met through yahoo messanger and we hadn't met eachother for 1 year coz of time and other problems but she loves me alot ....provided both should have faith in other.....best of luck for ur future ... have faith in him u gonna definately suceed................
2006-11-07 17:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by sapanbhuriya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya, u can by tokeing that we will meet any and can have fune and u can make face in yahoo tell him to make id in yahoo tell. tell about ur self and about him and put an camare so he can see u
2006-11-07 15:58:41 · answer #9 · answered by satyamrajput_0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya ...its really possible..... i have more than enough experience of this thing....if u want u can mail me.... i will let u kno many exciting things abt it....
bye
2006-11-07 19:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋