I recently met this lady. I'm 31, she's 25. We met at a little bar then went and got something to eat. We talked for several hours. The next night we went out again and it seems as if we both had a really good time, I know I did. We are supposed to go out again this coming weekend. My question here is....If we go out a few more times and everything keeps going really good (maybe it develops into something) should I invite her to Thanksgiving dinner. She's not from the area where we live therefore she has no family around. Thanksgiving is only a few weeks away so I'm not sure if it would be arrpopriate to invite her since her and I just met. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks
2006-11-07 15:47:29 · 7 answers · asked by corbin_rox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like you two really hit it off quickly, so why not.
If your comfortable asking and she accepts, there shouldn't be a problem. Of course run it by your family first to see what they think.
2006-11-07 15:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by kewlkat103 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the best way to approach it so there's no expectations or pressures (on you, on her, on your family) is just to keep it going, but keep it "light" till the holidays are past. Dating during the holidays becomes stressful - what may be a big deal to you (bringing her home for Thanksgiving dinner) may not be a big deal to her, OR it may cause her to conclude you'll be proposing by Christmas, lol... ... My advice: keep it light just say Hey, I know you don't have any family around here, it's not mandatory but if you don't have plans for Thanksgiving why don't you be my date for dinner? And if your parents/family are likely to make a big deal of it, just let them know in advance not to propose a toast to their future daughter in law quite yet, lol... Good Luck!
2006-11-08 08:48:59 · answer #2 · answered by Auntie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if she is happy to go on these dates with you, she obviously would be happy to meet your family. If this is a special lady to you, it would be rude not to invite her to it.
2006-11-07 23:50:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you talk to her about it.
she might be happy that you asked her if she has no family around. but it might scare her..you know big family dinner and what not.
try
"i know you don't really have any family around here. if you're comfortable with it you're more than welcome to join me and my family."
MAKE SURE you tell her WHO is going to be there(grandparents,sibblings,ect.)
good luck
2006-11-07 23:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by drtgirlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your damed if you don't ask! She will be offended if you don't even ask her.
She may already have plans, but if you ask, then she may go with you, being that she likes you. All women want tobe asked.
2006-11-07 23:50:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has no family around she would most likely have nothing to do for thanxgivin so yeah, i would invite her... especially if you like her..
2006-11-07 23:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask her now..wait like two or tree days b 4 dinner..thats wat i wuld do
2006-11-07 23:50:23 · answer #7 · answered by te quiero tanto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋