My fiance and I have been engaged for 1 month and plan on getting married in 6 months. He is a nice guy and loves me. BUT: at his job, he talks a lot about his gay co-workers who act like they are interested in him. He also has a neighbor who lives in the apartment under us who he hangs out with a lot who also happends to be gay. I have nothing against gay people, but it seems like my fiance spends more time around gay people than straight. He hardly ever spends time with any straight guys. Should I be concerned?
2006-11-07 15:21:55 · 6 answers · asked by me-me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, he is probably gay and just doesn't realize it. Or he doesn't want to accept it.
2006-11-07 15:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by Melissa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call. Since it bothers you and you are engaged you should be able to talk to him about it. Let him know that it bothers you and ask him why. Maybe he doesn't feel comfortable with single straight guys now that he's 'off the market'. I know it sounds weird but it's just a possibility.
2006-11-07 15:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by thinktoomuch32018 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be concerned. I hang out with alot of lesbians and that does not mean I want to get on any of them nor does it mean I have hidden pent up feelings. What it means is that they are my friends and we have many common interests - minus the sexual preferences.
2006-11-07 15:24:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend this question. He is he only one who knows the truth. In general, your instincts are a good guide.
2006-11-07 15:24:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, YOU SHOULD BE CONCERN, SOMETHING IS GOING
ON, AND THE FACT THAT YOU HAVE BEEN ENGAGED FOR
A SHORT PERIOD OF TIME , I WOULD REALLY TAKE A
GOOD LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP.
2006-11-07 15:26:08 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be concerned... I would postpone things..
2006-11-07 15:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋