My boyfriend and I have a beautiful loving and affectionate, and sexual relationship, we have great sex and love eachother to bits, however he still sometimes likes to look at girly magazines, i occasionally feel uncomfortable and insecure about this, usually when i'm a little horemonal, but i get paranoid thinking i'm not good enough for him... Is this a normal reaction?
2006-11-07 15:20:57 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Watch porn with him. My wife tried it with me once and now she likes to watch porn more than I do!
2006-11-07 15:23:17 · answer #1 · answered by TrainerMan 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Girly Magazines
2016-09-29 08:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's normal for men to look at the girly mags, and also normal for their women to feel insecure about the fact that they do. Have you voiced your concerns to him about it? If he doesn't know it bothers you, then he can't try to change it, can he?
If he does know it bothers you, and still continues to look at them, then that's where the personality of the guy comes into play. Is he a natural flirt or more intraverted? Has he had many different relationships in the past, or just a few? Well, what I'm getting at is this: If his eyes have wondered to much in the past, he could be getting ready to do so again. If he's always been a 'one woman guy' than don't worry about it.
My husband has a few, and those stupid calendars with half naked women and cars on them even. I trust him completely, so I don't let it bother me. My advice would be to politely tell him that it bothers you and why, and take if from there. Or, if that's to forward, ask him what he enjoys about the mags, and then take it from there.
Best of luck!
2006-11-07 15:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by Midnight Butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yes, it's perfectly normal for men to look at girly magazines. Why get so worked up over something like this. Have a seat next to him and see what's so interesting. To some guys, that's a total turn on. When he actually knows the names of these girls, then you should be worried.
2006-11-07 15:32:16 · answer #4 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its normal, but annoying. Men like to look. and we wanna look at every chick who's even a little bit attractive (okay maybe thats me) but we do we look, we think about what itd be like to get with this or that one. we do not go from "wow she's hot, probably wild in the sack too." to automatically lowering the zipper and releasing the monster on the general public.
His looking isnt a reflection of a lack of interest in you, actually its probably a show of trust and confidence that he let you know about his girly mags. He figures he's in for the long haul and she should know i have these things around.
dont worry its normal for women to get insecure over this, but if your sex life is working, and hes still attentive, thats what you should pay attention to, he wants you, he likes/loves you. just a naked tit is still yummy to look at.
2006-11-07 15:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by Myrrhder 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't get too worked up about it. It's ok to look but not touch. He doesnt love or desire you any less, it's just a dumb thing guys do. he may however, learn a little tact and class, and not read the mags in front of you.
2006-11-07 15:26:09 · answer #6 · answered by exaluva 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definite, i think of you're basically feeling insecure, yet you do no longer ought to because of the fact while you're tall and a length 12, you need to be interior the healthful BMI selection, and look trim. i think of you're aggravated to locate your boyfriend's ex replaced right into a length 18, because of the fact you have been stressing out, attempting to look greater like his meant 'suitable' female, while in certainty, he hasn't even been with somebody as trim as you!! that should in all probability annoy me too. regardless of if, existence's too short-- do no longer sweat the small stuff. Be happy with who you're, i think of your boyfriend is over the moon to be with you after being with somebody significantly greater suitable. I ought to question regardless of if his determination particularly is for small, skinny ladies? regardless of the situation do no longer enable this mess with your recommendations-- you're a healthful length and that i'm specific you look great. attempt to enable bypass of this situation as this is obviously making you unhappy and in all probability affecting your boyfriend to boot.
2016-10-15 12:33:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah its normal but if you say you have such a loving relationship and are greatly in love, dont worry so much, he loves you thats that.But if it really gets under your skin tell him to not look at them nomore because it makes you feel insecure, he'll understand.*
2006-11-07 15:24:30 · answer #8 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very normal for guys. Dont feel insecured
Help him by dressing up like a few of the girls in the magzine..Guys love it
2006-11-07 15:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by Don 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal but dont doubt that he does it because he likes them more. men are more visual then women we are more emotional. look at them with him. i would always rather my husband look at them then other real life women. at least these are just pictures. dont worry about it he wouldnt be with you if he didnt think you were better then the pictures. good luck hope this makes you feels better
2006-11-07 15:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think every guy dose it, it just a habbit with some guy. Don't worry about it or tell him you dont like that he looks at them. And you probably are good anough for him, he just dosn't relize it or somthing like that.
2006-11-07 15:24:11 · answer #11 · answered by Haley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋