What do guys think when they are being ignored ?

Question

I know this guy likes me, and I did like him for a little bit. Then he started telling little lies, and not treating me the way that he did when we first started talking and hanging out together. I pretty much got tired of hearing his sarcasm and they way he would just flip out over nothing. I decided the best thing to do is to just ignore him. Confronting him would just make things worse. But he just texted me today after I have not called or tlkd to him for a week asking me what I was doing and where I was. What is he thinking? Does he not realize that I am not talking to him purpsoely and I dont want to ? I am gonna just continue to never talk to him BUT I would really like to know what goes on in a guys mind when a girl ignores him???? I am not playing hard to get with him. I am just curious. I don't plan on talkin to him anymore and I know people will say just tell him but I really just want to know what guys think when that happens. Thanks all.

Answer 1

Hm, a few guys would realize that she doesn't like him, but not if he's a guy who sees through his egos. They still chase, because they want to prove to you that their love is real, which they hope that will get you to change your mind. Some also want to get their "confidence back" which you have taken away by continuously ignoring. Under this situation, we simply don't know what to do, and it is so frustrating to constantly lose while feeling shame, and that's where the word bi*** comes to some of our minds (women who are difficult). Whichever it is, he wants your love, even though he hates you (strange, isn't it). A guy who has had a loving mother wouldn't do this, because he feels confident enough to not chase a woman when she's clearly out of the picture, even though it may hurt. What you're doing is the right thing, so keep it up. If you be nice to him, he'll think he has a chance with you, and it's like putting more fuel into the fire! But yes, if you told him directly, he'll stop his act.

Answer 2

To be perfectly honest with you all guys think differently in this regard and so it is impossible to say what he is thinking. However I can say that regardless of the guy this is the worst possible way to end a relationship or a friendship. If you dont want to see him anymore tell him that and tell him why. Otherwise he wont know why you stopped talking to him and for all he knows your just in a bad mood and it has nothing to do with him. Girls always say guys need to be more open with their emotions however this is one example of when girls need to do the same.

Answer 3

Okay this really sucks!! He will continue to keep making contact because he doesn't know. That's the worst thing you can do is let his mind go crazy wondering what the hell happened. Just tell him how you feel and be polite about it and if he can't handle that, then just stop communicating but you have to let him know.

Answer 4

Guys think about these things? Really......they don't get all emotional like girls do - they rarely think about feelings and do not normally try to figure things out or wonder or analyze what's happening at all. They are generally oblivious - at least that's been my experience! Usually there isn't alot going on in a guys mind as far as these kinds of things go. That would explain his actions wouldn't it?

Answer 5

It all depends who the girl or woman is who's doing it. In a marriage it usually causes people to cheat or even sometimes to worse things. It's very hurtful and causes some people more pain than name calling would.

It's defined on a case by cases basis.

Answer 6

Guys want sex. If you ignore a man, we don't know why. And we don't care. When we want it, we want it. Until you sit him down and explain your concerns with him and hanging out with him, he won't understand and will keep calling.

Answer 7

i dont care being ignored. really, no big deal bout it....