It's not about being a good or bad boyfriend.
She's just decided that you two would be better as friends. That's all.
While it may hurt, take a deep breath. Relax. You're fine! There's NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU! She's probably the one going through things.
Just relax--everythiing will work out for the better.
2006-11-07 15:20:01
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answer #1
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answered by FaZizzle 7
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It's not about you being a good boyfriend or bad. It's about a young woman that doesn't know what she wants. As a man, you have to take a step back and let her go. Don't feel that there is something that you can do to make her stay. In her mind, ya'll are already split up. Trying to impress her right now can send her further away. If this is something that you feel is worth fighting for, you need to step back and let her figure herself out. If she comes back to you, it's probably meant to be. If not, and I know this will hurt, you need to move on. Because she never loved you in the first place. Don't let her control you and keep you hanging by a string. Let her know that you are okay with all of this and that if she wants to go through with it, it needs to be full throttle.
2006-11-07 23:23:00
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answered by Hank 1
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Don't feel like you are a bad boyfriend. Sometimes when you are with someone without giving them the needed space, they feel smothered. We sometimes just need some space, some time to miss our partner to realize we actually truly love and miss them. She is confused about her feelings which is so very normal in a lot of cases. Give her some time and take that time off as well. Enlighten yourself and hang out with friends, find hobbies and enjoy your time. After some time call her up and see what happens.
Best Wishes Sweetie
2006-11-07 23:22:22
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answered by Sassy Shut Your Mouth 5
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Sounds like your girlfriend has a new boyfriend and she doesn't know how to tell you, but that doesn't mean your not a good boyfriend. It means she not a good girlfriend for not being honest. It is depressing to lose someone you care about but you deserve someone that will care for you the way you care for them, so do your best to find something or someone else to occupy your time and when the time is right the right girl will come along. Good Luck.
2006-11-07 23:33:54
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answered by sharpeilvr 6
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sometimes the fire can go away. i know you care about her, but i doubt it has to do with you being a good boyfriend. when people make up their mind about a sitution there isnt too much anyone else can say or do. In my expiernce in dating, sometimes being a friend isnt a bad thing. it can make you closer. but if shes not feeling you anymore take that and run with it. things can seem bad but then something happens later that makes you realize it was all for the good.
2006-11-07 23:21:22
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answered by *sweet sugar* 2
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Honey if she is that confused give her her wings and let her fly. I am sure there are plenty more girls out there waiting to fill her shoes and when she realizes this hopefully it want be 2 late for your girlfriend but if you happen to find someone else good by to the old and hello new.
2006-11-07 23:27:54
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answered by H Town Girl 2
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Spell noe...know.. Thank you... Also if she does not want to be with you then you will hurt for a while but you will recover. Dont worry about finding someone else just worry about healing and moving on
2006-11-07 23:21:14
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answered by Kay 2
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U are but If she does not love u like u love her, that is not healthy for U!!!! Ask her to give u reasons why, If u know that u have done all u can do, then I would let it go!!!!!! She will realize what she lost, keep ur head up.
2006-11-07 23:22:29
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answered by HIGHLY FAVORED 3
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I'm not sure where your question is but sometimes it is better to break off the relationship sooner than later. Just imagine if she thought she would eventually love you and prolonged it. Breaking up is one of the hardest things to handle in life especially if you loved them. My heart goes out to you.
2006-11-07 23:20:38
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answered by Anonymous
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young love sucks............This is when you begin to learn the hurts of life. Bandaids don't help anymore. Only thing you can do is respect her and move on. Stay busy.........You will find another and forget all about her as much as you don't think so now. U will trust me.
2006-11-07 23:21:57
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answered by Teenie 2
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