could some1 help me??? thanx u?

Question

well my friend wants to go on a double date with me and 2 other guys (well duh) well she wants to go to a pool in a bikni that is REALLY reveling and i also have a bikni that well covers more (like the stomach area hers is like the lil mermaids shell top thats hers) and well she hardly knos the guy and i think its a bad idea to go to the pool cuz of her swimsuit. i think we sould do movies. instead. which do u think is better the movies or pool. and well we havent known them for very long. some1 help!

Answer 1

SOUND LIKE YOU HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON YOUR SHOULDER. DONT MAKE IT SO EASY FOR THEM. SINCE
YOU REALLY DONT KNOW THEM. TAKE THE TIME TO
GET TO KNOW THEM THEN SEE HOW IT GOES. OTHER
WISE THEY MIGHT GET THE IDEA OF SOMETHING ELSE
ALL TOGETHER. DONT MAKE WAVE SO EARLY IN THE
GAME.

Answer 2

you're very correct about the pool thing. but i also don't reccommend the movies. it's dark and anything can still happen. you don't know the 2 guys so it's better to be safe than sorry. it's better to have snacks or lunch where you can see them and talk to them properly. this way you can find out more about them and see if they are worth spending time with. you don't have to join them if they really want to have a pool party. it's not your job to look over your friend. you have to take care of yourself first.

Answer 3

Start out with a movie. On the second date, go to the pool.

Answer 4

You know, everyone has their own opinions on what is ok and not. I personally hate revealing bathing suits and my girlfrined wears bikinis...I say "whats the difference between it and underwear? If it was underwear, you would be scared about people seeing you in it." she replies with "the fact that its a bathing suit." The fact of the matter is that some people don't think that a bikini is that bad of a thing...I personally hate them but I realize there's some things I can't change. So I say if your friend wants to do that and wear that, let her. She dosen't think its that bad.

Answer 5

Both, the guys would like the pool and they would like a movie. You could go swiming during the day and see a movie at night.

Answer 6

if you don't feel comfortable with the type of date that she has set up and she is really your friend. She should be more then willing to change her plans. Some girls like to "parade" around there "goods" if you are not that kind of girl. (and if you're not then good for you! I'm not either) then you need to speak up to your friend. and if she doesn't change then don't go. You will respect yourself more and your friend will realize how you feel. You need to think about how you will feel.

Good Luck! Only you can make the right decision for yourself.

Answer 7

It's best until you know these guys alot better to not wear something like the bikini of hers that you described. Flaunting your assets to men is asking for trouble, maybe more than can be handled. Play it safe until you learn alot more about who you are dealing with.

Answer 8

movies is definatly the answer. why not movies and mini golf or something ? if you have not known these guys for very long it could lead to things you dont want. dont start your life down the wrong road. you dont need to follow your friend because she wants more than you do. be your own person lead your own life. good luck.

Answer 9

I think the movie is safer. If you have a good time with the guys maybe you could go on another date and then go swimming.

Answer 10

stop hating and do the pool thingy, i mean if he doesnt like what he sees maybe he will go for his with you instead being that there isnt much left to the imagination. na jk go to the movies better where you dont have to see her nipple covers.

Answer 11

I agree with you, the movies, or something other than revealing herself. She doesn't need to be doing that on the first date, especially with someone she does not know.