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If I knew she had been molested I would not even be going out with her. I would get as far away from here as I possibly could before she wakes up and thinks that I molested her too and tries to put me in jail for being a perv!
2006-11-07 14:59:13 · 6 answers · asked by Sakura 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A girl who is everything out ever wanted and more(you two are going out) falls asleep in your arms. She's not fat just a 5'1 and weighs 90lbs. She doesn't look skinny, she looks normal.
Would you have no problem falling asleep with your arms around her?
what if she was molested so it took her a while and tons of consuling to get over it. She is beginning to trust guys again. Would you break this fragile bond by being a perv? Would you expect her to go all the way?? How would you help to ain even more trust from her??
Would you mind her sleeping in ur bed with you all night?? Would you put ur arms around her?
She has a wonderful personality and is ur dream girl basically. (a perfect personality and hott.)
2006-11-07 15:01:19 · update #1
dunno
2006-11-07 15:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by nina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello,
well it takes a lot to trust a man again in her situation.....so she must trust you some where to fall asleep in your arms....don't press any sexual issues till she is ready...and she will let you know...it will all come in time my friend....and if she has been through counseling then that's better for you....most people it takes a long time to get over sexual abuse...especially if it happened as she was young until she matured in to a young lady...because then she didn't know that it was wrong for some one to do that to her......and obviously she trust you so you must have some reason why she is there with you maybe your her protector in her eyes for now...only time will tell...just go with the flow...and don't rush things...she will let you know soon enough...:)~
2006-11-07 23:15:08 · answer #2 · answered by wendy p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he should be there 4 your needs not his own gain. If he loves you he would let you cry on his shoulder and be there 4 u all night.
2006-11-07 23:11:27 · answer #3 · answered by Hott Gymnast 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you ask this before..lol except it was a little different.. i wudnt kno she was molested before, unless she told me... i guess i wudnt tho, cus i wud feel bad but i kno i wud at least put my hand on her or somethin
2006-11-07 23:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by greg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would be patient with her if i found that i cared genuinely.
'she' needs to make sure she's with a polite, sensitive guy.
2006-11-07 23:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are patient enough you can do all above!
2006-11-07 23:04:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋