I just broke up with my boyfriend who i found out was playin me wit at least 3 otha girls. (only 3 that i kno about) and now he is abuot to go with another girl and i dnt want her to go through wat i m goin through but she wont listen to me. how do i get her to listen?
2006-11-07 14:55:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just let her learn on her own. She won't listen to you because she thinks you are making up stuff just to hurt your ex. When he hurts her the same way she will realize she should have listened to you!
2006-11-07 14:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
sometimes people dont want the help. If she wont listen to you she is just going to have to learn on her own. If she is a friend then let her know whatever happens you will be there for her when everything goes wrong. As for him just remeber what comes around goes around. One day he will find someone he really cares about and they are going to do to him what he has done to other girls. Move on girl you are better then that. Good luck
2006-11-07 23:01:26 · answer #2 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's defenitly not going to listen to you , she's probably thinking your lying cuz you dont want your ex to get with her.So let it be, its none of your business and your not going to get hurt by it, just because you dont want know one going through what you did it doesnt mean you can prevent guys from hurting other girls, thats what lifes about, youre going to get your heart broken a couple times.All you can do is watch out for yourself dont worry about other ppl's feelings especially if you dont know them.*
2006-11-07 23:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by abelssexywifey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you can do is tell her that when he cheats on her, and you know he will, that you are available to talk if you are her friend. If you are not her friend, just give her a kleenex and say here, you are gonna need this someday, mark my words and walk away, at least you will give her something to think about.
2006-11-07 23:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you don't. Let her learn from her mistakes just like you did. Would you have listened if someone would have told you?
2006-11-07 23:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't. She's gonna have to learn from her own mistakes. She probably thinks that you're trying to destroy her relationship with this guy. Its true what they say that love is blind, this includes puppy love and lust. She's not gonna see what a jerk he is until she gets hurt. No way around it.
2006-11-07 22:58:41 · answer #6 · answered by Zana-Di Girl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can only do so much and if she won't listen I would let it go
2006-11-07 22:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by Claire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't everyone have to learn there own lesson in life all u had to do was warn her u not her mother so u cant force her not to go with him
2006-11-07 22:59:11 · answer #8 · answered by nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she'll have to learn by experience if she won't listen.
you've done your share now look for other types of guys.
2006-11-07 22:58:22 · answer #9 · answered by B.B Top 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt wanna listen to you then let her find out on her own
2006-11-07 23:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋