You see, yesterday was one of my friends b-day. Me and her have been droppin hints for each other since the summer. I havent found the rite time to tell her how i feel. I didnt call her yesterday on her b-day b/c i wanted to see if she would be upset and say somethin for not callin her. That way i would know that she was thinking of me and wondering if i was gonna call her.
Do you think i did wrong by not calling her on her b-day? Do you think she will be mad at me? What is one way i can make it up to her if she is mad or upset w/ me?
2006-11-07 14:55:07 · 13 answers · asked by audivox8610 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you messed up on that one, a word of advise its been better to just ask straight out than giving someone a test to see how much they like you. by her some of her fav flowers and make a homemade card saying srry and happy birthday and do a lot of praying lol
good luck and smile big
2006-11-07 15:01:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be the perfect time now to explain how you feel about her. That way she will understand the whole not calling her on her birthday thing. Just let her know. I am a true believer on expressing yourself. Cause what happens if you never tell the one you want that you want them & they hook up with someone else? Then you are just left wondering could that be me, or wonder if they would have went with that person if they knew how I felt.
2006-11-07 23:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by bryfillicetti 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell her you were stupid. Why would you try and test a friend on an important day to her? You really need to make a huge apology to her, unfortunately you can't make up for not calling. Depending on the kind of person she is, and if you know her well, I would think you would know what to do. Best wishes for not having another stupid idea.
2006-11-07 23:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by raspberryflavr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she brings up or confronts about why you didn't call her on her b-day then just simply tell her what you were trying to do to see if she liked you or not. If she can't handle you liking her or if you read her messages wrong (which i doubt) just say or ask if you two can still be friends. If she does like you too and you all start dating good luck to you!!
2006-11-07 23:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by m&m's are the best !!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My opinion i would be mad if i was her and you didn't call me but i think its time to express your self to her, and a good way to make up is to take one day out of your life and make it all about her
2006-11-07 22:59:30 · answer #5 · answered by ,Tc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's quite possibly the jerkiest thing I've ever heard. How selfish can you get? Of course she'll be mad! You'd better have a damn good gift for her when she confronts you.
2006-11-07 23:02:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shell be mad, unless you explain to her why you didnt call her a or give her a big present or suprise and say if you would have talked to her you would have let the suprise out, if shes really mad it has to be something good.
2006-11-07 23:00:19 · answer #7 · answered by tyraroxmysox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes she should be mad at you iam sorry you should have called her, this is not a game here this is her b-day.to make up you ,could take her to lunch and buy her a gift she may forgive you.
2006-11-07 23:03:41 · answer #8 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww, you should have called her. She's going to think that you arent interested in her now... you should definitely buy her a bouquet of flowers to make up for it. ;-)
2006-11-07 22:58:17 · answer #9 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to make it up to her? How about giving her a real mans number...you know...one that doesn't play stupid childish games like yourself.
2006-11-07 23:00:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋