Me and my family are havinga little dispute about me having another child,what should I do???

Question

I already have 2 children and Iam currently going back to school to further my career as a nurse. I feel that I could maybe handle one more, and plus I'm not getting any younger. But sometimes I feel so over whelmed by all that is going on in my life already, I'm not to sure. HELP!!??

Answer 1

If you are feeling it inside of you, then it is the right thing to do ! It is your unborn child calling to you! when a woman has a feeling like that, there is a good reason! It is meant to be. Children are miracles, blessings, gifts, & a privledge, can we really ever have to many of those things?

Answer 2

Do what feels right for you regardless of what anyone else thinks. My family disputed with me about every child I've had since #1, I now have 4. Some of my family members made rude comments about having my tubes tied & so on. Though it upset me I did what felt right for me, I now have 4 children that I love very much & now after the 4th one I feel complete where as even after the 3rd one I didn't. The family will love the baby when it comes no matter what & they will either realize that it's your decision not theirs or they will get over it.

If another baby is what you want then do it. Don't let your family make your decisions for you, only you know how you feel about it inside. Good luck.

Answer 3

i think you should go to school.you are already blessed with two kids.i mean you already said you feel over whelmed some times i really don't think it is a good idea being you said you feel over whelmed.i mean if you feel like that now just think how you would feel with another kid.you should be happy with what you got.and go to school to be a nurse.what ever you decide good luck and make sure you stay in school

Answer 4

don't have a kid, unless your sure you can
1. afford it
2. function on 0 sleep for like a month with your schedule
3. give it the attention it deserves
4. deal with being pregnant and going to school and
5. have room for it in the house

and don't just have a baby, because you THINK you can handle on more. or because you're getting old. if you feel overwhelmed without a baby , just think how it would be with it! this decision should be between you and your partner. tell the rest to butt out, its not them that are gonna have it.

Answer 5

It is entirely up to you?how do the other kids feel about the idea of a new baby?? You can still go to school with a baby maybe even take nite class when dad can kid sit. Most places have online courses too.

Answer 6

I love my third child, but he broke the camel's back. He is a handful to say the least. It isn't fair the the child. You won't have the individual time necessary to raise a baby while in school. You have two already. Time to get a dog.

Answer 7

Try making a calendar of how you use your time on a daily and weekly basis. You should be able to determine if you can cope with another child and still manage everything else. It's a tough choice, I wish you luck.

Answer 8

Having another baby is a major decision you must know this already.I suggests maybe borrowing one of your sisters or bro kids and keep them 3 or4 days a week maybe that could help you living with one more kid might help you decide

Answer 9

If you want another baby that topic should only be up for discussion between you & your partner. If you both feel you can handle it then go ahead. And respectfully tell your family to butt out.

Answer 10

I would probably say no-don't have anymore-at least until you are done with nursing school.If you are already feeling overwhelmed with 2-it will only be much more so with 3.