Me and my bf jsut got saved. which we know is a good thing. I figured this would help work out our relationship. but we fight jsut as much as we use to. I love him more than anything in this world. and i cant imagine my life without him, It seems everytime we have a good night the next one sucks. Last night he suprised me and picked me up from work and brought me flowers(gettting flowers is my fav thing) and we went to dinner and he even opened my door. I know he loves me. i know he does, but tonight it seemed like we fought alot. i hate it. what can i do so we wont fight so damn much. im not even sure anyone can help me. But if you can that would be amazing<33
2006-11-07 14:41:45 · 8 answers · asked by FairChild 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My answer is "open communication". Why not try to talk to your your BF that you are already fed up with these unreasonble fighting? Or better, you can try this. If someone is shouting because he/she is angry, never shout. Lower your voice. I have seen these with my parents and i have never seen them fighting becuase they keep it cool.
2006-11-07 14:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by bugi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes really passionate people take everything too far and the passion boils over into everything you do. When you argue does he demean you or put you down? Does he get physically violent to you? Does he get mad over little things that he can not control? These would be important determining factors in deciding how far you should go with your relationship. If you are serious about a future with this man it does not sound to me like the kind of environment that you should raise children in... I would suggest that you sit and discuss your frustrations and if you could convince your boyfriend to attend some couples based therapy or workshops I think it could do your relationship a world of good. Just remember that constant anger and frustration is not love... it is not enough to stay in a relationship just because you may be codependent on each other. Get some help and try to reduce the anger in your lives... Good Luck.
2006-11-07 22:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Aren't you the girl w/the baby on the way?
But relationships aren't always sugar and spice and everything nice. Everyone has an argument in a relationship. What matters is that you two rectify the problem and move on. It's okay to argue every now and then. It's no big deal.
2006-11-07 22:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you guys fought about?,if its petty things i guess that is to much with a relationship...i mean,,aside love, trust..to make make relation work u both have respect with each other..understand each other..now if you are fighting or arguing..let him talk first and listen...after he says everything then its time for you tell ur side..it's not good if you both talk at the same time..and with hot tempered..nahhhh
2006-11-07 22:53:16 · answer #4 · answered by cj r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What doesn't ruin the relationship only makes it stronger.
2006-11-07 22:44:15 · answer #5 · answered by Ariella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
letting God into your heart is one thing. letting God into your relationship is another. seek out a christian counselor through the church. good luck.
2006-11-07 22:45:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try giving us some specific information......... you sound like you're in grade school
2006-11-07 22:45:59 · answer #7 · answered by Damian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Agree with him.... you are his *****.... lol
2006-11-07 22:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋