My ex-bf and I were together for 2 years, and we broke up about a week ago and we broke up over some pretty stupid stuff. We caught him lying to me and he always telling me that he chooses me over his friends because I had always been there for him since the da his mother died, the day of his car crash, and so much more. We shared so much great and bad moments. And the moment he told me "So what I pick my firneds over you, they've been there for than you!" I felt it was lies and I can't believe all the things I did for him and the friends I gave up for him, he still dont appreciate jack sh*t. Well we haven't made any contact for about 12 days. I don't know what to do because he did mess up and I dont wanna go back looking stupid, but I feel like ever since we broke up I have NOTHING left. I miss him like crazy and I still love him. I wanna call so badly, but I try to resist the temptation. I texted him and told him how I felt but no response. Does he still care? 2 yrs. down the drain.
2006-11-07 14:34:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try not to be such a selfish *****.
2006-11-07 14:35:54 · answer #1 · answered by NONAME 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay,you say that your boyfriend does not appreciate all you did for him since you were a twosome for about two yrs. You also mentioned that he has been telling you lies and you found out about it, you shared the good and the bad times with him, so, you and him do not see each other for 12 days now? Now that you have had time to cool of you tried to make amends by writing to him and he did not answer your letter. Can't you see that he does not want you to bother him anymore, to him you are history so, now he does not want you in his life anymore. Do not belittle yourself to him asking for another chance, since you say that he has his faults, so don't think that he is going to change his ways. There are plenty of fish in the sea, as the saying goes, so put the past behind you and go on with your life, he is not worth it.
2006-11-07 14:52:42 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two years may seem like a lot now, but in reality it is a drop in the bucket. Be happy that you did what you did for him and forget hearing a thank you from him. You helped him out of love and that is how it should be.
The fact is, guys never care like girls care. I am sure he loved you and thinks about you the best he is capable of.
No more tm him or contacting him. Read the book "He is not all that into you" It explains what is going on in his mind, and I am sure it will help you get on with your life. Who knows what the future holds. You have no idea how many times I have heard guys say... "I wish I had stayed with her" and it is 10 years or more latter. Guys are just really slow with it comes to understanding what they missed out on.
Now go busy yourself with all those projects and dreams you never had time for because you were too involved taking care of his needs.
2006-11-07 14:43:33 · answer #3 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he stilled cared he would have texted you back. You really need to move on and make some new friends before you waste anymore valuable time. You said it yourself, he doesn't appreciate Jack Sh*t so is that really what you want? Reread your question and ask yourself if you would be happy with a person like this? Good-luck to you, I think you deserve better.
2006-11-07 14:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, yet you're loopy. This ex of yours STABBED you. He delivered you actual harm and you're nevertheless in a relationship with him? Your new bf sounds like he's familiar with what he's speaking approximately.
2016-10-15 12:30:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, now listen...is there any possibility that he is trying to get over how bad he has been feeling since the accident, that he feels that by dropping you a big part of it will go away. If he was never allowed to greive alone, he probably has realized that he is over it and wants to move on and get rid of all reminders. Give him time...alone. He may come back...but if that's what he's doing move on.
2006-11-07 14:41:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ofie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its not two years down the drain its two years of teaching you to not trust a lying sob in the future. just move on if you texted him and nothing it means he is through with you. so find someone and try to be happy . just think some day you will look back and say you know that dumb guy roy gave me some good advise.
2006-11-07 14:39:33 · answer #7 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try 10 years of marriage down the drain.... I wish he would leave me alone.
Don't text him anymore let him come to you, YOU are worth the chase. Let him feel your absence and he will realize that you are more important to him than he realizes. If you keep trying to contact him he won't relize how he feels when your not available and also your silence will make him wonder what your up to. I promise leave him to play with his friends awhile and he will be back.
2006-11-07 14:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by kizo918 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl don't feel bad me and my ex-boyfriend and i broke up for some stupid stuff to and i luv him like crazy and i be thinking about what be happening and every thing so girl we ain't the only ones with ups and downs.
2006-11-07 14:44:10 · answer #9 · answered by Meosha B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's pulling your strings. Find a new BFand he'll come home with his tail between his legs.
2006-11-07 14:38:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋