how do i stop thinking about this friend of mine.... we've not been in touch since like 2 months due to what reasons i dont know... hes not been able to come online since a month before that he was busy adjusting to a new city (london) where hes gone for higher studies... im so used to talking to him when im low or taking advise from him that now hes not here i miss him like crazzyyy .. i cant accept the fact that hes gone and that his name will not beep on my cell anymore.... recently also i wasnt well for two weeks i needed some1 to talk to and all i felt like doing was calling him...even though i knw hes not there at the other end... im sure hes not ignoring me....but who knows?? i got advise from friends like he used me as his source of entertainment till he left and now he doesnt need me..ive not got any reply to my mails sent to him more than a month ago..i really dont know what the problem is.. i tried calling him on his birthday but the no turned out to be not in use.. HELP..
2006-11-07 14:29:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try to get involved in something that u enjoy and forget about him.If he returns then fine oherwis by being involved in something entirely differeny willl prevent u from thinking about him less and u will be able to carry on ..
2006-11-07 18:47:34 · answer #1 · answered by anubhav 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some meditation. Lay in bathtub count 1, 2, 3.....so on and so forth. At the same time try to picture the numbers. It's an old buddist trick. The point is you need to get your mind of this guy because it sounds like it's running your life right now. IF that doesn't work then do something that hypnotizes your mind, like gambling on a keno machine.
2006-11-07 22:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont come to conclusion that he parted ways with u. that may be true or it may also be that due to some unavoidable circumstances, he couldn't contact u. just wait. but don't have too much hope that he'll be back to u. u befriend somebody else but always have a soft corner for this friend too. if he turns back, u'll be very excited to have him back & if he doesn't turn, u may not feel too distressed.
i give this answer assuming he is ur 'FRIEND'.
2006-11-08 02:04:16 · answer #3 · answered by silambs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhh,dear i wanna say that he didnt lov u otherewise where ever he gone he keep in touch with u.dont feel hurt in life there r many chances 4 frndship n lov.there is something great that god hav thinking 4 u.so plz dont be upset n start ur life again u ll get nice n loving bf .he is not lucky bcoz he loos u.so cheer u dear
2006-11-08 03:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by kakadiya r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me is just that his trying to make someone out of him but he´s always gonna remember you so dont feel bad instead you should be happy for him if you know he left for a good reason. Always Smile
2006-11-07 22:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try the old fashioned way of getting in touch with him, write him a letter.let him know that he is missed and you are hoping to continue the friendship even though your lives are different paths now.
2006-11-07 22:33:23 · answer #6 · answered by housemouse62451 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like he's actively trying to avoid you. Forget about him. If you obsess over it, you'll make yourself sick. Find a new friend to confide in and form a special bond with them. Don't be too needy or clingy either. Maybe that's what drove your other friend away.
2006-11-07 22:33:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moved on and you're not in his life anymore. Hate to break that to you. That's too bad that he had to be like that. It will take time to get over it, but trust me, you will!!! Good luck, girly!
2006-11-07 22:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sonia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that i may sound cruel but then i would advice you to move foward by making new friends bcos he seems to have moved to new pastures.
Take care and make new friends
2006-11-07 23:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by Sudden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is someone who understands you, someone whom you can trust, someone who cares about you and ofcourse vice-versa....So go find that someone, and enjoy your life. Because life it too short to be sad about, so cherish every moment. I am pretty sure you'll find your true love soon, my best wishes with you!!
2006-11-09 18:30:17 · answer #10 · answered by billu_bhai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋