i am 16 years old and i have never had a boyfriend.. i have liked alot guys.. but they either ask someone else out or they say they just dont like dating.. ( i have had it happen).. i feel like am gonna be lonely forever... i have no idea what to do.
if your gonna say something mean please just dont say it all.
2006-11-07 14:27:25 · 26 answers · asked by finnyfroc315lax 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was 18 till i got my first girlfriend and i'm still with her, i felt the same - i was so desperate at your age to get a girlfriend it just never seemed to happen, so i stopped being bothered, i was given some advice, upto the time i was 18 i woulda taken the first offer with not considering it, so i styopped looking, and the next thing i know, i had two girls interested in me, one more so than the other, so i let things pan out, and hey presto, i've been with her for 18 months now, i love her more than abnything i could love in the world, so my best advice would be, stop looking and let them find you, when the time is right it'll happen, i can proudly say i've only ever been with one girl, and she is the only one i ever want to be with, so just let it happen, enjoy your life, do loadsa sports, they keep you fit, you meet new people (met my girlfriend at badminton)and its fun, find soemthing you'll enjoy, and go get em
hope this helps
2006-11-07 19:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by me-jus-me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I hope this doesn't sound mean, but instead of looking at it as that you are 16 years old, you really should look at as that you are only 16 years old. I know that because other people are doing something that you are old enough for and feel ready enough for but aren't doing yourself can feel lonely, but that isn't a reason to feel pushed to do it. Or out of place if you don't do it now. Or that it will never happen. These things do progress of their own accord, and it's better to have some nice dates when they do come along than bad ones because you tried to force them to happen.
2006-11-07 14:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16...I wasn't allowed to date until I was 16 so you're not behind the curve...be patient...you're barely old enough to start being in relationships and you already think you're going to "be lonely forever"...you've got MANY years ahead to date so don't be in such a rush...
And there's a difference in being alone and lonely...you can learn to be alone and still be wonderfully happy...in fact, you should...don't ever depend on someone else for your happiness...that way, no matter what your life path is, you'll be able to make the best of it!
2006-11-07 14:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.Your still young and have lots of time for boyfriends.If you concentrate on your future you will not only have a career,you will also meet people as you go along.Your future is more important than some boy.Put some knowledge in that brain of yours,then when a boy does come along,you won't fall for just anything.You will have good sense to pick and choose what kind of boy,or man you want in your life.
2006-11-07 14:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Willnotlietoyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're still young. Go out there and try to have fun and don't make these silly thoughts that you are gonna be lonely forever. Don't mind and let it come naturally. I'm sure someday, sometime you will have the best bf ever.
Good luck
2006-11-07 18:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you so hung up on finding a guy at 16? Do you need a man to validate you? I think not. Why do you think boys aren't asking you out? Figure out the reason and do something about it. You might find out that the thing that attracts (good) men is a woman that respects herself.
Or, you could just put out, and attract a bunch of bums that will treat you like crap. Your choice.
2006-11-07 14:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is going to be nice, so don't worry. You don't need a boyfriend to be happy. If you have just one friend in your whole life it will be good. Did you know that at your age, the likelihood of knowing anyone you see everyday after you have finished college. Look at it this way...your first love may be your forever love, and god is saving you for him. There truly is someone for everyone, and if you are patient, you do not need to look. Find something to keep yourself occupied, such as sports, or the library until he finds you. Sometimes if we feel desperate, we look desperate...you don't want to do that. Good luck, and be happy.
2006-11-07 14:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Ofie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
froc: You are probably the "diamond in the rough" every guy wants but doesn't know it yet ! Seems like an oxymoron - yep it is. Most people like what's not good for them and you are that good . Take heart though; there will be someone out there for you. - I promise !!! Don't rush - just walk into a relationship when it presents itself, because it will !!! Good luck to ya !!!
2006-11-07 14:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had your same problem, I just learned to deal with it. At 19 I started dating, and honestly I think it happened at the right time.
At 34 now, I am still in love with my ex (long term relationship) but I am in no rush of meeting anybody else.
NOTHING is wrong with you, it's like not all pregnancies are equal!
Take care.
2006-11-07 14:34:20 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No nothing is wrong with you slow down...your only 16,give it some time.I felt the same way when I was your age,I didnt have my first girlfriend untill I was 18 and I was a virgin untill I got married.Theres nothing wrong with you.The perfect guy will come into your life when you least expect it...trust me
2006-11-07 14:31:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋