What should I do in this situation when my bf is afraid of confrontation and afraid of solving problems?

Question

My bf and I broke up about 1 month ago.We are long distance. Then I flew up there and we got back together.But after I came back, he didn't call me as much.It's like me always calling him. So about a week ago I got annoyed.Why should I always be the one calling him?Especially before we broke up he's always the one always calling me.So I stopped calling.He didn't call me either. Last weekend,our mutual friend tom went to his place and he was drinking heavily(he normally doesn't drink).Tom said my bf openly admitted he was upset about our relationship.But he didn't call me or anything.Tom talked to him,telling him whatever he wants to do he should talk to me about it.He said he wants to break up but he still cares about me a lot and he still has a lot of feelings for me.So he doesn't really know what he wants. But he said yeah, he should talk to me.So i sent an email to him today wanting to set up a time to talk.But he replied saying he doesn't wanna argue, he doesn't wanna talk any more

Answer 1

Time to move on. If you two can't converse then it is over.○