The reason i am leaving is because of her being a rude, promiscuous person and i am tired of her bringing her guys over at 2 in the morning. I got out of the room because she smokes. I leave tommorow and she does not know yet. I am not confrontational so tell me an easy way to let her know.
2006-11-07 14:16:54 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You should tell her in person. It doesn't have to be confrontational. Just say your personalities don't mix. Tell her you don't like smoke (are you allergic to it?); you need your rest for class and her early morning (or late night) visitors disturb your sleep. If you are afraid she will interrupt you, you can always write it in a letter.
2006-11-07 14:29:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be tactful.You list three reasons why.1.She's rude.2.She's promiscuous.And 3.She smokes.The first two reasons are too subjective.Its sure to start a confrontation.But the smoking,well now thats pretty solid and because second hand smoke has been proven to be a health hazard,that in itself is good enough reason to move out.
With that said,it must be assumed that you have not signed a written or agreed to a verbal contract that obligates you in some way .You may be forced to pay rent and or utilities whether you leave or not.Did you know she smoked and became a roommate anyway?You may need to think this through.
This is how I would tell her."Umm excuse me cough cough
umm...could you stop doing that with your boyfriend for a moment so I can -cough cough GAG talk to you?"
"you see this is not really working out for me and....ummm
could you stop that with your boyfriend for a second,see
uhh cough gag gag cough,I'm moving BYE !"
Thats not so hard is it? (hard being relative here)
Good luck!
2006-11-07 14:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-21 11:12:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to mention any of that. Just say, "I have decided to move out." and start leaving. Once you have moved or if she askes why, tell her that her "Oh" voice is burned into your memory, choking on the ashes of the cheap cigarettes she smokes. Tell her that if you wanted to feel like you lived next to a truck-stop in Nevada, you would do so.
2006-11-07 14:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is the best. I would tell the truth, just say i am getting a little mad at the way you are acting. Your being rood and i am sick and tired of it. I am sorry to say that i am moving out tomarrow. (or put it in your own words) if your that kind of person go ahead and lie.
2006-11-07 14:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know that you are moving out to another room. That you need a change of scenery. If she asks why then do not lie. Just tell her that you don't think your lifestyle is compatible with hers. She's night owl and a smoker and there's nothing wrong with that but it's just not your thing. You'd rather live with a nonsmoker who has a schedule that's more compatible with yours. If she gets upset, just assure her that it's nothing to be upset about- sometimes people just aren't compatible.
2006-11-07 14:22:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brento! 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would just tell her that your lifestyles aren't compatible. If she wonders what you mean, tell her you need your sleep at night and aren't a smoker. Tell her it's nothing personal. You shouldn't feel guilty because you want to move.
If she isn't around when you leave, be sure to leave her a letter., and wish her well.
2006-11-07 22:09:17 · answer #7 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave. She will be upset that you did not tell her, but then she'll stop and think "Gee, no-one cares enough to let me know what's going on. I really must change and be more considerate so people will communicate with me...."
Sounds disrespectful, but for her own good. She will benefit from you just leaving without saying a word.
2006-11-07 14:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confrontational at all. Be excited. Say, "Oh, Susie - guess what. Laurie had a vacancy turn up in her room, so I'm going to be moving in with her. I figured it will give you this place to yourself, and Laurie and I have so much in common we've always kind of wanted to be roommates."
(that type of thing)
2006-11-07 14:28:21 · answer #9 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "I'm moving out." And if she asks why, tell her it's because you're tired of her bringing guys home at 2am. Honesty is the best policy.
2006-11-08 04:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋