ok the guys i like all like me but not for the reason i want them to..all they like about me is ok well they say im cool and understanding and caring..but what they also like is that i have a big lower back (butt) what do i do???
2006-11-07 14:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by * 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, you teach people how to treat you. Respect yourself and they will learn to do the same. Make your position clear as to what you want and expect from a friend and what they can expect from you as a friend. Peer pressure can be very powerful if you allow it to be, so don't. It's your choice. The only person guaranteed to be with you for the rest of your life is the one you see in the mirror each day. Don't allow their immaturity or less than sincere intentions to change who and what you are. Shallow friends are not friends at all. Be you and be happy.
2006-11-07 14:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by big dawg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds familiar. Hmm. Anyway. I was going to leave a joke answer but figured you wouldn't appreciate it and had already considered it in a fit of dramatic despair, so how about you just stay cool and understanding and caring...and don't let that backside sag too much coz you will notice the attention does die down or change once you gain toooooo much weight to pull off the nice big butt. Look upon these guys with some sort of favor, but not as if they are doing you a favor, coz they're not. Still be nice to them, but sort of shift your own attention to what you want to and slowly something else will happen maybe. Or you will have plenty of time to discover you are fine alone with people who just think you're cute and cool but not anything else.
I'll shut up now.
2006-11-07 22:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by *babydoll* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! people should be so lucky as to have an attractive feature for all of us. bring them in with the butt, then make them work for the intimacy. be up front - you aint gonna put out until they prove themselves, then stick to it. youll quickly separate the men from the boys. then choose the one who is kind, honorable, intelligent ambitious, strong. make the right choice, choose the good guy.
2006-11-07 22:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give into them, filter your choices, the right one, will wait until you make sure, he is the one.
2006-11-07 22:18:08 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what the F*** is your question? why do you care what they like you for if they like you, they like you,WTF is the problem? they think your nice or whatever but you want them to like you for your ****? i think maybe your just ugly and they don't really like you they just don't want to hurt your feelings...
2006-11-07 22:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by xxdigitalasphyxiaxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh... so... what exactly are you trying to say?
2006-11-07 22:22:51 · answer #6 · answered by caige 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋