There's a guy in one of my classes. We're close friends and everything, but I don't know how close or even if he's gay. I miss my ex and told him so. He told me that he wasn't ready for a relationship but there could be a chance for the future, and that for now he'd rather cherish our friendship. I don't know if I should wait for my ex or go for the new guy.
2006-11-07 14:14:18 · 8 answers · asked by mr.band_geek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would just ask the new guy how do he feel about gay people and then go from there cause if you approach him wrong and he isn't gay then you have a big problem and respect your ex wishes good luck
2006-11-07 14:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its guessed that this friendship will be a gentleman's friendship only. If its a gentleman's friendship then you can move with both or in other words you all three can be firends to each other work for beneficial servives of the society.
In case its other type then I wud suggest that please get back to your respectful, dignified way of life. As one day each of us have to die and be questioned abot all our activites in this world. Therefore, be preapred for that days as well.
2006-11-07 14:21:16 · answer #2 · answered by MY Regards to All 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember WHY the ex is your ex. Move on to new territory, either platonic or romantic. Looking back is going back.
2006-11-07 14:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by ihave5katz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait it out, see if this new guy is gay and into you.
maybe his ready for a relationship unlike your ex.
let your ex be your ex....just be friends. he had his chance.
2006-11-07 14:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by sisT27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not a relationship counselor or something, even with the undeniable fact that it style of feels to me that in case you have broken up mutually with your ex (a minimum of) two times after putting severe attempt into the relationship, then you definately shouldn't come again including him except you the two circulate by some severe adjustments. you're able to take it sluggish to be removed from him and harm this on and rancid cycle that seems to be happening between the two certainly one of you earlier pondering rekindling the relationship, in case you re-ignite it in any respect. needless to say a minimum of certainly one of you desires time to handle issues that have become interior the way of your having a significant relationship, extremely if he potential as plenty to you as you say. interior the period in-between, in line with possibility you're able to spend it sluggish on my own earlier stepping right into a sparkling relationship with the different guy. that is not honest to the two of you in case you circulate into the relationship once you're nevertheless hung up on your ex, so in line with possibility you're able to take it sluggish to recover from him and then see while you're arranged to dedicate to a thoroughly new relationship. desire this facilitates. good good fortune.
2016-11-28 02:46:13 · answer #5 · answered by kittredge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think...why is that other one an "ex"? Then you will know the answer.
2006-11-07 14:18:31 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for neither. Go for the BOOKS... Get yourself an education; put boys on the backburner...
2006-11-07 14:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
........if he's your ex!.........what does that tell yuh dude!......( why are people so damn complicated! )
2006-11-07 14:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋