y dont most middle school relationships last that long?

Question

They only last for, like, two weeks! A guy will ask a girl out, she says, "yes" and two weeks later, they get sick of eachother and break-up. my first boyfriend did that to me and I didnt cry, but we lasted for 5 months and I dont understand y some ppl cant just keep 1 relationship for at least a year! It just confuses me!!

Answer 1

I think its because you guys are a bit too young to really comprehend what relationships are and what it takes to make one last. Dont get me wrong, we all have had our little things, but relationships should be started near the end of high school and college. Dont worry about it. Your love life will happen alot sooner than you think

Answer 2

WOOAAHHH, take a breather! First off, I realize that A LOT of girls and guys are maturing rather quickly. You don't even need makeup, you're still a kid! Not even a teenager. I remember when I was 11, I didn't even think or care about makeup or my hair that much, or all the money I'd be wasting on name brand clothes. You need to relax and realize that you SHOULDN'T be worried at all. People are going to like you for you. You don't have to dress or look a certain way to impress anyone. Wear what makes you happy and feel comfortable and not too much makeup at least. You will lose old friends and gain some new ones, just be really friendly and polite! Don't worry, a lot of other girls are going to be scared too. So it's really easy to make a new friend early in the year. And don't you dare worry about boys! Trust me, not worth it. It's nice to have a little "fling" at that age and stuff, but it won't mean anything, AT ALL until you're a lot older. If your school uses a locker with a lock combo, just write the combo down on a piece of paper and practice and memorize. BELIEVE ME, you might "forget" your combo, but when you're at your locker, your mind and fingers seem to remember EVERYTHING. Join clubs that interest you, you don't have to but it'll keep you occupied. If you study the map of your school or go to orientation, you most likely won't be lost. Just stay calm and ask teachers if you need help finding something. There are hundreds of kids who will be in the same situation as you. **** Oh, and one last advice :) DO NOT STRESS OVER MIDDLE SCHOOL. I remember when I was younger, I would beat myself up over a bad grade or something that I did that wasn't good enough and my brother would always say "Middle school doesn't even matter, wait till high school". HIGH SCHOOL is when EVERYTHING counts: your grades, gpa, sports, recreation/clubs. That's what colleges want to see, not middle school, not elementary school. I'm not saying you shouldn't try hard, but just remember, don't worry about all that. I'm the BIGGEST worry wart ever and I have bad anxiety and I pretty much ruined my childhood life stressing over that. Now I'm in my senior year of high school praying to god that I'll get into a good college :) Haha but good luck!

Answer 3

Understand dear the reason why those relationships don't last is because you are all young and naive about things right now you don't know who you want and some of you certainly know nothing about love...For guys it is game in middle school they are just learning what the big boys over in High School learned when they were there age... For the best advice that I can give you young lady leave the boys alone and concentrate on your education...you will have plenty of time down the road to have men and I do mean real men in your life. One last thing if it confuses you that means it was meant to for you not to try to understand but move on and do your thing.

Answer 4

The reason being is because you guys are so young at that age you are not quite sure as to what you are looking for in a person. Its like trial and error, something like that will go on for a bit longer. Sorry to break it to you, however I have seen (rarely) a relationship last from middle school up to high school....then again it was only once. Just relax and dont sweat it.

Answer 5

Because middle school kids are still in the discovery age of life and that means finding out who your soul mate is by finding good and bad from these relationships

Answer 6

well when you are in middle school you are still very young and need time to live and expermint, you at that age are still ju stchildren. it hurts but some one else will come along by the time you get in high school, then you will start all over and think back what was i thinking. you are still just a child, enjoy life while you are young.

Answer 7

Because middle schoolers are too imature to know what love actually means and experience it. Wait till you are older to get relationships. My first relationship lasted a week. But I still love him.

Answer 8

Uh. Newsflash. It's MIDDLEschool. You're in 6th 7th or 8th grade!! Of course they aren't going to last. What did you expect? Did you want to get married?! Seriously! Where do you even go? Chuck E Cheese? Make out in the tubes connected to the ceiling?? Right. It's amazing how many girls in schools like mine dont have ANY common sense at all. Plus they probally just want to be your "boyfriend" so they can tell their friends. Whatever. You'll just have to get over it and wait until Highschool.

Answer 9

its because the guy (or girl) thinks they like the other person because they are pretty and or skinny. So when they ask that person out they get to know them and find out they don't like them. At least thats what happens in my school.

Answer 10

For one thing, they can't support eachother. Another is the fact that their minds are still developing. The third thing is, they aren't serious. It's not like the couple can go out on decent dates. ( They can't drive yet, nor can they get it from their parents, nor are they willing to.)