I really like my best friends boy firend, and he likes me too, but he loves her. And one day he and i kissed...twice, and now i said no to daing it again because i dont want to hurt my friend, but i really like him, and it seams that he has lost interest in me. What should i do?
2006-11-07 13:55:24 · 17 answers · asked by no regrets 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him be. Find your own man.
2006-11-07 13:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but if you two were really "best friends" you wouldnt even be asking a question like that! It just shows you dont care for your relationship and obviously he doesnt because how can you "love" someone and then like their besft friend??? Just imagine what would happen to you if you guys got together...he would proabably pull that s*** on you then you would lose your friend....Chicks before D*cks hon! Leave him alone and look for YOUR OWN MAN
2006-11-07 14:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by nicole 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, aren't you in a pickle? For starters you really need to stay away from him. It isn't uncommon to fall for a friends bf due to the fact that you and he are getting to know each other in a non threatening way with your friend in the middle. And you can get comfy with someone like that and decide that they are perfect for you. If he's saying he loves her , take that to heart and keep yourself out of their relationship, see if they make it work. Either way, even if he does decide to dump her and see you instead, remember- he cheated on his girlfriend with you, and he will treat you the same. Karma is always a boomarang.
2006-11-07 14:01:15 · answer #3 · answered by Skanky McSkankypants 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him. It will definitely end up with you hurting your friend. Keep his interest away from you, no matter how hard it is to do. You got kisses to remember him by, because its time to leave him. Trust me - if he likes you but loves her, keep it at that. I know its really, really hard, but it is the best for all of you!
2006-11-07 13:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How can you do like that?? There is many man in the world but why you choose your best friend's boyfriend?? Think twice before you do something that you will regret it later..
2006-11-07 14:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you!!!!! I guess this best friend must not mean much to you, Right? You have already hurt her she just doesn't know it!
What were you thinking? Don't you know that your friends boy friends are off limits? You should do nothing! SHAME ON YOU!!!!
2006-11-07 13:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a better friend and leave him alone. How would you feel if she did this to you? You would be crushed.
I hope you can explain it to her when she finds out, because she will. It's just a matter of time.
2006-11-07 13:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your both batches... It should have never happened if she was your best Friends. Say nothing and stay away from him and make peace with her but try to hung out with someone that doesn't have a boy Friend.....
2006-11-07 13:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by sisT27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont get involve...let them figure it out...but dont be a rebound or a backstabber. But like u sed..He LOVES her and LIKES you....that kiss coulda meant nothing....best thing is to give up on him and support your friends relationship
2006-11-07 14:00:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, if this girl is really your "best" friend. then why are you kissing him in the first place. bros before hoes girl. and it stands the same for girls. and if hes gonna loose interest in you that soon, then why bother? find a guy thats not taken and that likes you for you. its your best friend your talking about, do you wanna risk loosing that friendship too?
2006-11-07 13:58:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Tell your friend IMMEDIATELY and vow never to do that again. You have done her wrong, and fess up to that before she hears it from someone else.
2006-11-07 13:57:41 · answer #11 · answered by Eleanor Rigby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋