How should i do this? NEED HELP!!!!!!?

Question

okay, so there's this girl at school that i like. things really havent been going too swell. this is cause i haven't really talked to her at all, so she thinx im a complete stalker. now she lost a lot of interest cause i follow her and i dont talk to her at all (she had a little interest at the beginning of the school year, im a freshman in highschool) now i think im gonna back off a little bit and maybe play hard to get, or maybe ill try to make her jealous or sumtin. but where i need the help is i dont know when to "come back" to her or how the heck to succeed in this plan. if u have an alternative idea please list it, or if you have an idea that can improve mine list that too
by the way, she knows that i like her and so does everyone else. we also have the same friends, so that might be good for something.

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

its too bad that u dug yourself that big of a hole. U need to let her be alone and try focusing on something else. If u dont the hole is going get deeper and deeper and sonner or later u'll have no chance with anybody she knows. good luck

Answer 2

You're obviously coming on too strong if she views you as a "stalker," and if she's become withdrawn as you said, making her jealous probably won't do much good. Get to know her better as a friend with no relationship intentions in the way and then you both will have the oppurtunity to figure out whether or not you really should go out.
...Of course, backing down from stalking doesn't mean you shouldn't do some sweet things, just make sure that they won't come across as creepy at all.

Answer 3

Dude you dug yourself this hole, stay in it for like a month and leave her alone totally.

Then, at Christmas, give her a little gift and explain that you were a big doofus and wanted to ask her out but were too scared. Girls appreciate honesty, not being slick.

Answer 4

Have you asked her about her feelings towards you? I'd stop the stalking thing asap! thats not cool. just be honest man. the best way to approach the situation is to say it like it is...AT THE RIGHT TIME. If she doesn't like you then drop it and move on. If she does...congrats.

Answer 5

i don't think you should play hard to get--it may give the wrong signal that you aren't interested in her anymore... i think you should stop stalking, start chatting, or write her little notes if you're scared. the best way, however, is to confront her and tell her your feelings honestly and straight to the point... gd luck :)