Ok there's this guy I've liked since first grade and he's never really liked me. Now we've gotten new guys through out our school and I've liked them for awhile then always seem to come back to this same guy. Lately he sent me an email asking me who I liked. Like the bold person I am I told him, that I liked him. So now we email each other regularly but he doesn't bring up me liking him any more. And he's a total flirt with the other girls and me as well. He said in one of his emails he doesn't like me (yet). Is that promising or will he never like me because he shows no interest right now. And I can't stop obsessing over his emails and wondering when I'll get the next one. Then my emails sound stupid because I know I"m talking to him and can't think of what to say. Will he ever like me and will I ever stop being obsessed with him???
2006-11-07 13:47:21 · 5 answers · asked by amagaldi_star 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may like you, and he may be holding onto you as a safety-net just in case he can't get anyone else. He may want you as well, secretly, and he may just be pulling your strings to have another girl fondling all over him. A lot of guys are like that. And some aren't. In your next email, straight out ask him if he really wants to be closer to you, in a boyfriend-girlfriend kind of way, or if he's just playing you. Don't affend him, just ask him straight forward. Dont hold on to dear life while waiting on his next email, persue other guys whom you like and who have an interest in you. I've tried and tried again with a guy like yours, and sometimes, you just have to be friends. Give him a break and stop sending him lovey-dovey messages. Make him hold his breath while he awaits your emails. Always be on top of your game, but dont wait around for something that may not even get passed those emails. Save yourself the hassle. Good luck!!
2006-11-07 13:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by sarahsue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
While you may like this guy who for some reason seem not to be interested in you, dont make him feel like he is the only man alive by causing him to think you are running after him. If I were you I would not even talk to him. Kick him to the curve. Stop trying to make something out of nothing.
2006-11-07 21:55:24 · answer #2 · answered by lemonade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep this guy as friend but date someone else - you cant wait forever & that way you can still be friends. If he does have more than friendship feelings it will make it realise this. Once you are in a relationship with someone else your obsession will vanish - you are in love with the idea of him in love with you, not how he really is.
2006-11-07 21:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dilemma! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy ur talking about is not a boyfriend material. hes not ready for a serious relationship. hes a playboy type who will definitely cheat on his girlfriend all the time. i know its hard to avoid this guy, i think ur not obsesss, ur just too busy on him...try to check other guys. don't waste ur time on this guy. to tell u the truth, no hurt feelings...he doesnt like you at all. hes not worth it.
2006-11-07 21:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by shaznay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's possible he doesn't like you but likes the attention you're giving him. unfortunately, you won't stop obsessing over him until you've had him. go out on a date, i'll bet you'll find that you don't like him after all.
2006-11-07 21:52:03 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋