this guy likes me( i'm a girl) He is bi and i am straight....... is it ok do you think to go out w/someone bi?? even if your're not??
2006-11-07 13:37:06 · 30 answers · asked by clairebear 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you willing to share? Are you willing to take the risk of catching something?
2006-11-07 13:38:14 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay, but you seriously need to be careful. If this is an intimate relationship, you need to make sure he doesn't have anything from any of his former male partners. Aids is prevalent among the gay community. As long as you're both clean, careful, and honest with each other in a monogamous relationship, there should be nothing to worry about. Be aware, however that you may start to resent the men he's "been" with, and not necessarily approve of his lifestyle before he was your boyfriend. You will not be able to make him straight. He will always have those tendencies. Good luck.
2006-11-07 13:41:45 · answer #2 · answered by tiakeith420 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What ur askin really only u can answer.Im a girl and Im bi.Some guys were ok with it some not.Being bi means you like both girls and guys.But if the thought of him bein with a guys sexually before you bothers you or you dont think 100% ull be fine with it.His preference of men and woman wont be a issue and ur really feelin him go for it
2006-11-07 13:48:48 · answer #3 · answered by carebearmaree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO....You are only setting yourself up for failure. It's hard enough competing with other females, but to add other males to the equation is begging for trouble. Also, there are STD's to be concerned about being bi adds to the likelihood of contracting something. Also, you must have some self esteem issue if you are willing to settle for someone who is unsure of who he is.
2006-11-07 13:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by akatudeprettygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well yeah. I'm bi and some of the boyfriends that i have had went out with are straight and i told them from the beginning about my orientation and they still went out with me. it all depends if your attracted to each other.
2006-11-07 13:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would strongly recommend against it. Being bi or homosexual means that the person has some issues as it is as far as decisions and personality go. If he's can't even stay with liking girls, who is to say he'll stay liking just you?
2006-11-07 13:40:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anthony C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes it is ok. just as long as you to hit it off and he stays with you and doesnt cheat with another male people that are bi are no different than straight people. just like both sexes
2006-11-07 13:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by CabbyChristine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go out with him.....but before it gets physical you should both get an AIDS test and if he's still seeing guys you should get tested periodically.
Of course he would wear a latex condom.
I know this isn't what you asked I'm just concerned for you.
2006-11-07 13:40:06 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but you have to remember that they do not only like the opposite sex they also like the same. just as long as you don't think he's gonna cheat on you. most relationships that are this way don't end really good.
2006-11-07 13:39:57 · answer #9 · answered by mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he likes you, then i'd say go for it. As long as you really like each other, I don't see why any 2 people shouldn't date.
2006-11-07 13:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by BloodyCarrion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋