ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .
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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone
2006-11-07 13:35:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK bluestreak, this question is posted more than 2 dozen times...which means you are obsessed and she is an airhead....move on already.
2006-11-11 10:54:23 · answer #1 · answered by nil8_360 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im kinda going through the same thing...KINDA! My ex and I have been broken up since May, we broke up for no particular reason, so right there, we had no closure and that left me feeling how I feel right now. For him...I only wish I knew how he feels, deep down I know he loves me and wants me back, he's not the type of person to run back to me thou, I know him and he wont do that, but after we broke up i couldnt leave hiim alone, calling,txtn... he wouldnt answer thou...but when I went over to see him and talk to him he would always cry. That really left me confused! That was during the summer, now just this past friday i seen him at a club and i was dancing with some1 and he was being all gelous and ****, throwing stuff at me...ANYWAYS, she loves you and it seems she's confused she doesnt know what she wants! Do you still have feelings for her? Why do you avoid her? If you could of fixed ur relationship would you have? The way ur acting toward her is the same way my ex acts towards me, i have no man but he see's me at clubs dancin. If you dont want anything to do with her you should make it clear for her! You cant help who you love! I still love my ex with all my heart and I'd do anything just to tell him! cuz he wont answer my calls lol. IF u still care and love her tell her! Iknow my ex loves and misses me but he cant show or tell me, but I just know! Can you tell me y you dont answer he calls and txts, is it becuz you dont know what to say, ur scared, mad? She really misses you though!
2006-11-07 21:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by jackie b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey mr b, and the rest of your aliases,
she broke off with u cuz you didnt have time. then she dates this other guy. now she sees she made a mistake and now shes
calling you, she wants you back. she loves you
remember she also admits she dating this other guy cuz she is lonely (which is an insult to the new guy) cuz he is not fulfilling her needs.
2006-11-07 21:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's thinking that you will always be there for her. congrats on not answering her. if you really wanted to let her know that your not interested you could forward all that crap to the new guy. maybe not i don't want you to get hurt. just hold your head up high and know that you won. he lost. he will regret being with a looser like that.
2006-11-07 21:41:36 · answer #4 · answered by elliepenelly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's not completely happy with him and she still misses what she had with you... it's a security thing. I've dated girls like that before... pisses me off.... I found that the best thing to do is to lay down the law: either she's with you or she's not, none of this texting and constant calling crap
2006-11-07 21:38:40 · answer #5 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, girls are very interesting. They break up with you and then they want to be your friend again. well, a girl can break up with you, but they still love you deep down inside of them. Try to work things out, my main man.
2006-11-07 21:41:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is obviously up to something i would say. mayb she is trying to get back with u or just want to b friends. but u did the right think ignore her.
2006-11-07 21:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by sweet143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know what you got till it's gone!!
It's probably hard for her to get past the good memories of your past 2 yr. relationship!!
Tell her to stop contacting you...It's only confusing you and not fair to her recent boyfriend!!
2006-11-07 21:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just wants to be friends with you after the break.
2006-11-07 21:39:56 · answer #9 · answered by melomane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
........why are people so complicated, making simple thing's messy, then struggling to fix it up, when there was'nt a mess there in the first place!.....This really does amaze me!.......
2006-11-07 21:56:14 · answer #10 · answered by peanut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋