I just asked a girl if she wanted to hang out with me?

Question

I just asked this girl i like (melissa) if she wanted to hang out with me at our lunch period and melissa said to me that she is working on a science project with her group and then she said sorry to me. But I know that she is not lieing to me because my friend is in the same class as her and is in her group and the way melissa said that she was busy was not in a no way it sounded more like a maybe later thing. So what should i do?

Answer 1

[That's the way WOMEN are]
That's the way she SUPPOSE to respond. If she don't it wouldn't be fun. I used to wonder myself, why girls have to be so HARD to get sometimes. And I realized this...

If they'd say yes, every time I ask to go to the movies, and NEVER play hard to get, that would be so lame. THINK about that .. you NEED Melissa to play hard to get. It makes it a challenge. And it will make you stronger too, because you properly home thinking about HOW to get her heyyy....

Yip, that's how it works .. watch ... in a few weeks, ya'll two wiil be out together and you'll be like WOW, how this happen. I've seen it all the time. Between me and you, women just don't realize a man will ALWAYS win in the end. (You don't forget that). Women good at playing hard to get, but eventually they give in.

[TAKE Notes]
I want you to make note, how HARD she was at the beginning to how easy and cool ya'll to got after a few months, and use that for next time. Remember that's how it will always be. Women start off HARD but as time goes they soften up, and she so cool with you....

[MY Experience]
I was talking to this girl one night, and if you was there, you'd think this girl wasn't into me. I mean for about 1hr, we was chatting right, but she was yawning, looking at her watch, like I was boring her out. And I was saying to myself, I lost this one.

[What to DO]
Listen I hope when you gat her, you could handle that.lol. Hey start planning now, how you gon kiss her, and stuff because she DONE yours, just a matter of time. I just want you be prepared and know what to do when you get her. Figure out how you will hold hands with her, etc.

[HELPERS]
If you too on the phone, talk to her for like 5 minutes, and watch the time, then instead of saying "I have to go." Pull the phone line out, and when she asks you what happen at school, tell her you was on a cordless phone and the time running low. Always use that excuse. Don't say "I gatta go" or it's getting late". No just make up an excuse.

If you don't know what to talk about, use these
1. Ask her, what's your favourite ice-cream... and for 5minutes just flow with that.
2. The next time you talk to her, ask her stuff like what type a guys she like, how she like a guy to treat her.Talk about how she likes to kiss on the first date and flow with that..

Just remember TIME, and she's yours...

Answer 2

Ask Melissa to hang out after school. If it sounded like a later thing, MAKE it a later thing. Ask to go do homework after school or if you can help at all with her Science project. Be a nice guy and don't be too needy. Try hanging out over the weekend! Just be sweet!

Answer 3

Ask her again, if she says no say "some other time then?" and see how she replies. That will give you an idea of how she feels about you.
With women my best advice is to keep on plugging and you'll find one that likes you as much as you like her. I had a buddy in college who would talk to every girl at a party no matter how many rejected him. He was never lonely because if 49 girls rejected him the 50th would actually talk to him.

Answer 4

she's probably giggling 'cause she's so excited. if a guy asked to hang wit me i'd be flattered.

Answer 5

Ask her out on a date...dinner, movie, concert...something like that. Find out what she's interested in.

Answer 6

in a few days ask her again and if she comes up with another excuse then move on!!!

Answer 7

Let her know that you are reday whenever she is to hang out

Answer 8

i would recommend waiting a few, then asking her again...