I cant find a guy for my life, I go out all the time and it seems liek everyone I meet im totally not into, where did all the decent looking gentleman go?? I just want to find someone who I am attracted to that is a nice guy, what am I doing so wrong ??
2006-11-07 13:07:27 · 17 answers · asked by Olivia N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just keep looking, girl. You'll find one. Seriously.
2006-11-07 13:10:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A great guy is hard to find.
Maybe you should not put so much pressure on yourself to find a guy. Maybe if you just relax a little, and not worry so much about it, you will find the right person.
Also, where are you meeting these guys at? If it's a bar or club, maybe that is why you can't find a decent guy. Try places where decent guys would hang out, like a local gym or sports event, etc.
2006-11-07 13:12:43 · answer #2 · answered by star22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah, it's pretty depressing, but you will find that the more things you do for yourself the more attractive you become. So , if you are angry at yourself for something find a way to fix it. If you don't like the way you look, get a haircut buy new make-up workout. When you feel good, you look good and you can walk with confidence. Stop focussing on the guy and focus on yourself. If you have to ask yourself what are you doing wrong, then you may be doing something wrong. Find out what it is and fix it.
2006-11-07 13:11:03 · answer #3 · answered by thinkindeep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really can't actively "look" for a significant other. You have to treat everyone the same, like you could be potential friends. From that point, if you feel somewhat different about that person, then try to pursue it, but dont' try to catch it. Just keep an eye on them. Let them come to you when you are being yourself. So in another words, don't put on a front because a lot of people fall for a front but run from truth. Let someone who is seeking truth come to you
2006-11-07 13:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're dating around too much! Just take a little time for yourself and try something you've always wanted to do. You'll find that guy eventually, but don't go around trying to make every guy you meet 'that special one!' That totally turns guys off and ruins the relationship!
2006-11-07 13:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you shouldnt judge and give up yet, if you are eighty and cant find a man that that I can let you get away with. My most of the time people just want to rush things, instead of enjoying the pleasure of hunting. Eh you get to meet some interesting people on the way. But sometimes we are too shallow to notice that those gentlemen are there!!! DON'T GIVE UP, stay strong!!! and GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-11-07 13:14:58 · answer #6 · answered by Stefy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are chasing after your goal; finding the right guy.
When you have a goal, to achieve it, you have to have it come to you. This applies to everything in life.
WRITE DOWN exactly the type of guy you want in your life.
My wife did, at age 9 (school project). We met at 15, got married at 18. Still married after 30 years. When we first met, she told her parents that night that she "had found the guy she wrote about." Still had the paper from when she was age 9.
If you do not write down what you want in life, others will decide what your life will be like.
2006-11-07 13:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can it imagine how frustrating it must be for you. it seems that the more we look, the less chances we get to find someone who will really arouse our interest. since you're getting all worked up about how the dating scene has been treating you, why don't you try to go out with friends in the meantime. enjoy being single, indulge yourself in new clothes, a new hairstyle, and a lot of pampering. you'll feel better not just physicallyl but emotionally and will gain a lot of confidence in yourself. then you may not have to look for that guy in your life but instead, he may be the one to find you.
2006-11-07 13:13:24 · answer #8 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are prolly attracted to the bad boy image. Most of these guys aren't the nice guy type.
2006-11-07 13:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by MisterO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, you will meet the guy you want to meet in good time.
2006-11-07 13:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Red1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋