I am 15 and found out im pregnant...i live wit my bro not my parents....me and my bf decided to keep it btwn us for now...wut is the next step after u find out ur pregnant?
2006-11-07 13:05:49 · 14 answers · asked by Krislyn S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
bobby..wuteva ur name is.....i dont live wit my parents cuz my mom died when i was young and my dad left when she died so my bro got custody....dont kno wut that has to do wit pregnancy
2006-11-07 13:29:24 · update #1
go see a doc
2006-11-07 13:06:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a doctor, and get checked out to make sure everything is ok. After you do that, tell an adult who you're close with so that you have some sort of support system. You have a lot on your plate right now, and it's always easier when you have someone who cares about you to lean on. Whatever you do, don't try to do this without the care of a doctor. Too many things can go wrong in a pregnancy. Especially when you're so young. I hope that you and your baby get through all of this alright. Take care of yourself.
2006-11-07 13:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Marianne K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young to began with. You need to get your self to a doctor is the first step. Then you and your boyfriend needs to figure out if you are able to raise a child. HOW ARE YOU GOING TO SUPPORT THIS CHILD? IS it the best thing for the unborn child? Just remember that the father's don't always stay around. They might say he will be there for you forever but things change. Good luck and please think this thru. Maybe even seek help thru a pregancy couselor. You don't have to have an abortion there are other things you can do if you feel it is not the best to start a family. How will you finish school?
2006-11-07 13:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it's a hard thing but you have to talk to your brother abou it. Look no parent or gardian wants to hear this and he'll probibly act angry and be upset. For him it's going to be a big bomb shell. Just listen to him without reacting. Be patient. Okay what he may say in confusion he'll take back when he's calm but you must try and be calm.
You MUST see an OBGYN. Teens can have a harder pregancy so it's improtant that you see a doctor as soon as you talk to your family about this. Now you can go to a clinic or a doctor's office but you shouldn't have to do this alone. You could, at least for a while but trust me please! As hard as it may or maynot be please talk to your brother!
Next you have to decide is you want to keep the baby or not! There are tons of Couples who want kids and you can ask for an opend adoption which is when you get pictures of they baby you gave away and you can be contacted by the adopted parents though an agency incase they need to know your familie's medical history If you belive in abortion than that's annother option but while you're pregnant you must be looked at by a doctor.
You can use the surch term teenage pregnancy to find out more options and health concerns
Whatever you do I hope everything works out for you!
Good luck!
2006-11-07 13:17:36 · answer #4 · answered by mistyfan69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first step is to go see a doctor. Second step is to ask yourself whether or not you want to keep this child. You are very young and your life will change completely with a child. Are you willing to give up school and a better future for yourself to raise a child ? Will you have the means to raise this child as best you can ? I mean will you be able to pay for the child's needs ? Food, diapers, clothes, doctor bills, medicine ??? You could either have an abortion or give it up for adoption. It's a difficult decision but you don't have much time to decide because if you want to have an abortion you will have to have it as soon as possible ! Good luck and next time use contraception.
2006-11-07 13:16:44 · answer #5 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all see a doctor, if you are sure you want to have a baby so young, you need to make sure that the baby and you stay healthy. Second thing I would do is, ask myself, and my boyfriend, are we financially able to provide for a baby? Are we ready to commit ourselves 100 percent to loving, caring and providing for another human being for the next 18 or so years?
Are we commited to each other for the long haul. Raising a child is serious...Please dont take it lightly...Also if you are living with your brother I think he needs to have a say, since apparently he is providing you with a home...
another thing why are you living with your brother and not your parents. The answer may help when considering bringing a child of your own into the world
2006-11-07 13:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a OB/GYN (doctor) and make an appointment for a check-up. You need to get informed on how to take care of yourself and the baby. He/she will set you up with a nutritional basics and some vitamin supplements that you may need. If you can't afford it check into Planned Parenthood Clinics, they can give you cheap (sliding scale fee--based on how much you earn) and sometimes free info and office visits.
2006-11-07 13:10:42 · answer #7 · answered by faeriemagik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go see a doctor and talk to her a little bit about what will happen. Also, you need to have a serious talk with your guy and figure out what you want to do. An abortion is always an option, but it depends if you two think you could make it work together or not.
2006-11-07 13:08:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are young so keep in mind that it will change your life for good. but the next step is to be honest about it and tell your parents and his parents, just becareful you are young and have got me worried i have seen how tough it is on young mums and i was once one myself and it is hard but i dont regret the dicission i made though and now i have a happy but terror of a 5 yo. good luck and i hope that all works out for the best.
2006-11-07 13:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Emma G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the doctor right away dont wait u need to get prenatal care good luck
2006-11-07 13:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by way2cooolmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the doctor, to get prenatal vitamins and a check-up on you and your baby.
2006-11-07 13:08:13 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋