I really like this guy who is friends with my male friends, he told me he's liked since he first met me, but then he's acting really funny. A couple of nights ago we saw each other again and we ended up sleeping in the same bed, which is the third time it happened, we've never had actual sex and he's never pressurized me to although we did do other things, and i took as this as him really liking me and wanting to wait. The next day though he was ignoring me and acting all cool and quiet which isn't normal for him, is this because his friends were there? His friends tell me that he really really likes me and that he's funny around girls he really likes, and that i should just tell him how i feel, but I'm pretty sure he already knows. Should i call him to ask? what should i say? I'm 22 and so is he.
2006-11-07 13:02:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him ! Let him know you like him. Mabe It would come out great now go and tell him.
^_^ This is my advice to you.
2006-11-07 13:07:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am male, and around my guy friends, my gf says I act a little bit different, which I know is a little true. Men around men = attempt to look "cool and manly". He's probably not really ignoring you, he wants more of your attention around his buddies because he wants to feel like "yeah, I'm the man because I have the girl around here". If he's 22 yrs old, he should probably know to come to you, not wait for you to come to him... I say wait a little bit and hang out with him a little more and see what happens after that.
2006-11-07 21:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by mysticaura29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dhe probably does still like you and he's just acting that way because of the pressure on his friends' part. most guys are all about sex (maybe his friends are & i'm not suggesting promiscuity) and your guy is just feeling the pressure. it's possible that his friends tease him on that matter and he's feeling the pressure. aside from that matter it could also be that he feels that you're not interested in him (even if you've tried and made it as clear as possible) and he's just trying to act like it doesn't matter anyway. either way you're both aren't teenager anymore to be dealing with all the "peer-pressure" and "misunderstandings". just save both of you a lot of time and tell him how you feel about him. if you want give him a week or so then twll him. treat him like a friend.
2006-11-07 21:16:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...so you slept together and then he ignored you the next day. Sounds like he just wants to sleep with you. I mean it sounds like that he doesnt know if he wants to have sex with you yet. He is afraid of something happening. Maybe you should see what he is like tomorrow before you rush into any conclusions. If something is wrong, maybe he should be the one to call you. Do you guys talk that much at all anyway? Because I dont see the relationship behind that.
2006-11-07 21:11:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gait 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just acting like this around his friends . Why don't you ask him to be real to you and make it a relationship ? You're both 22! What's taking so long?
2006-11-07 21:04:31 · answer #5 · answered by silverearth1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think he is just a bit immature, and should grow up. Think you should talk to him and clearly ask what the problem is, guys often don't get us if we try to go round the bush and use methaphores, so just ask it straight!If he persists being like that than find anotha guy as its a sign of huge IMMATURITY
Good luck
2006-11-07 21:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by aga m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy could feel akward because he doesn't know if you really like him or this was just some hook up for the night thing! just tell him that you do like him and you would like to see if yall could make something happen with whatever it is that yall have!
2006-11-07 21:08:46 · answer #7 · answered by Terra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to get a serious reality check and figure this out. You need to just tell him how you feel!
2006-11-07 21:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what your gut tells you,, better to do what you like and want than others telling you of the way you should feel.
2006-11-07 21:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by quitelovableman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should tell him how u feel...and yes he probally acts that way because he is with his friends
2006-11-07 21:05:32 · answer #10 · answered by {.:*jugurl*:.} 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋