okay, i`m sure you all know there`s that one group of girls, who are popular, that are complete b****** && they got all the boys, and they pretty much are so full of themselves. well basically one of the girls were my EX-BESTFRIEND.. but now that she`s popular she`s getting all this backup && i have no one =( i don`t want to look scared or intimidated but i am! i`m so scared... they`re REALLYY mean girls and they can spread the worst rumors in less than a minute! they just know sooo many people who can jump me, hate me, talk about me, beat me, etc. fkdsjfjsfs. i wanna quit MIDDLE SCHOOL :( all this drama is too much for me to take...
thank you SOOO much for reading thisss =]
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2006-11-07 13:01:49 · 11 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I'm really sorry you're having such a hard time with this group of girls. Growing up is hard enough without having to worry about someone hurting you or saying bad things about you. Have you talked to your parents about this? Sometimes just talking to someone can help you think of a solution to the problem. I actually had to take my son out of middle school and homeschool him because of bullies. One day while he was walking home from school, a group of them jumped him and broke his arm. You really need to talk to an adult about this so that you don't get seriously hurt. Maybe there are some options available to you that you haven't thought of. Again, I'm really sorry this is happening to you, and I hope that you don't have to go through it for very long.
2006-11-07 13:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Marianne K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know people are asking why do these girls want to beat you up? but having a teen daughter of my own, some times kids don't need a reason, they just do it so they have something to talk and laugh about later. i also know people are going to tell you that you should go to the school officials or your parents, well again, having a teen daughter that only makes matters worse. but leaving school is not the answer. may i suggest that you try talking to your old friend, not saying anything to her about girls wanting to beat you up or anything. just when you see her say hello, if you do that as often as you can. she might just realize that you and her were friends and she and her new friends will leave you alone. but most of all don't show them that your scared, they will feed off your fear. I'm not saying stare them down or anything like that. just don't show them your afraid. and just because they are popular, does not mean that you cant say hello to them. can i ask why she is no longer your friend? is it really just because she has become popular or was there some thing that went on between the two of you that was not so good. any way don't show them your fear. the way you have been handling your self has worked so far so keep it up.
2006-11-07 13:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on school. Get good grades.
Report these selfish mean b*tches to the right teachers in school. If you work hard and get a good education you will have the last laugh. These girls are too intent on being popular and controlling other people. When they graduate they will fall apart because the real world doesn't work the same as school. About five years after they graduate the popular girls will have three kids and weigh about 200 pounds. Then you can walk by and give them the EYE that says, "Not such hotstuff now are you."......
2006-11-07 13:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to middles school. This is when it is good to be in band or choir, because that is a group that learns to work with each other, especially if they do well in competition. They will watch your back.. You need to be with several cliques and not just one, that way none of them will have power over you. Study hard and be a success. The popular ones may get the jocks in high school, but chances are they will divorce 3 or 4 times and die lonely..
2006-11-07 13:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bullying and it can't go unnoticed. You should confide in a school counsellor. If they're doing it to you they are most likely to be doing it to others. Try to find out if this is happening to other girls and try to get these other girls to report it with you. The more the better. This happened to my daughter and it had gotten pretty bad but she told me about it and we worked it out with the school ( discreetly ) and now everything seems to be okay. She has another group of friends who are nicer and real friends.
2006-11-07 13:09:36 · answer #5 · answered by dd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being scared is hard to live with.
Go talk to your school counselor
or trusted teacher.
And talk to your parent.
You know who you can talk to.
Do stay away from the girls.
Don't talk about them or it will come back on you.
I'm sorry you are feeling left out.
Look for better friends,
join some school or church club.
Middle school will soon pass.
you can make it, and you will.
I'm as sure of that as I am of the sun rising tomorrow.
2006-11-07 13:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by dj_of_raleigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have such low self esteem. If they are talking about you, then you're more popular than you think. Don't let them bother you. When you get out of school (graduate, not because you quit) none of this stuff will matter. Make new friends and enjoy being a kid.
2006-11-07 13:07:19 · answer #7 · answered by Sonia 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wish there was something I could tell you that would fix it. First and foremost DO NOT SHOW THEM YOU ARE AFRAID. They will take advantage of that and jump you. Be yourself and stay away from them, those types are hungry for attention and that is why the do that crap.
2006-11-07 13:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by MRG 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should go to your teachers and parents and let them deal with it it is not fair that you have to deal with it by yourself, i went trough a stage like that when i was young and it was horrible.
2006-11-07 13:18:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents.. and change school if you have to.
2006-11-07 13:08:24 · answer #10 · answered by Evangeless 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋