I've been envolved w/him 4 3yrs. Been thru a lot we need to get it confirmed how 2 do it?!?

Question

It's been about 3 yrs in this emotional roller coaster. It seems I'm quick with it to give advice, yet know what to do with my own problems and draw blanks! when I first met him, it was like I was gliding on air....once of those movie moments when you guys lock eyes and it's like someone blessed me with this man's smile. Everything played out perfect for a while. I still see him on a daily basis we still are envolved. But he technically is considered my ex because he's cheated on me. This happened about a year ago and I told myself that I was better than a man cheating no matter what the circumstance. I stopped talking 2 him excepting phone calls. He sat outside & pleaded &we made it through. I had a PG scare a about a 1/2 yr.ago w/ him. Once I got fed up I left & relocated to another state.Twice he found me. The second time he actually searched 4 me on the Net. Now I'm back. He hide the fact he had been C'ing another grl while we were apart, we love echothr it needs 2 b confirmed how?

Answer 1

Three years is long enough to date. If you want to give him another chance and it looks like you do but I can't see why after he cheated on you once and then hid the fact that he called other girls while you were apart. That makes him a cheater and a liar. After all you were apart and there was no reason not to call other girls so there was no reason to hide the fact. Either marry him or leave him but stop playing house without a real husband. ○