when strong feelings of uncontrollable passion are gone at the 1st stage of a relationship , reactions of uncontrollable jealousy start jumping down, is it the sign of the end of love, relationship or instead the beginning of the relationship stability ..?
and do conflicts and uncertainty eventually can cause passion to go away for a while ..? will it come back again at appropriate..? ...my gf, sometimes told that she is talking regularly to another guy , I used to be jealous in the past, but no more now ...I woke up one morning and saw my passion has gone after 8 months in the relationship, but I still have love for her .. is it a normal course in a relationship ..? will passion and love come back as strong as before , or are those feelings tending to degrade ..?
2006-11-07 12:56:36 · 4 answers · asked by bobby s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i do believe that all the arguments in a relationship might bring it down,it's like you love that person so much,you give all of you to make it work.but then the incidents and misunderstandings keep pushing you away from each other,and just like you said,one day you wake up and you dont see things the same anymore.off course you still love and care about that person,but it's not the same kind of love you used to feel for her/him.whether passion and love will come back,im not sure about that.i would say it depends on how bad you wanna try to make it work to be with her.but if you feel like you dont feel the same about her anymore,then i dont think you will be able to feel the same again.for me,once passion and love are gone,there's nothing else letf there....good luck!
2006-11-07 13:20:05 · answer #1 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is said that the first year is the toughest to get thru. Have you tried to spice things up a lil bit? suprise her with dinner, bubble bath, and something sexy to wear maybe. My man tells me everyday that I am beautiful, sexy , and/or hot. We have our issues sometimes as well, but if you are both in love and commited to each other, you will be there to endure whatever comes your way. Communication is key. We had a slump kind of like what your going thru and after a couple weeks apart, we realized how much we actually loved each other. Maybe if the "spicing up" doesn't help, maybe you should try a temporary seperation. If it doesn't work out with the extra effort, then it was not meant to be. Things happen for a reason. Good luck to you.
2006-11-07 13:13:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The feelings will not come back as before. I can only wonder if on some level there wasn't some hurt involved, because if the heart experiences even a trace of anything unlike love, then love erodes away. It may be that you are actually just friends now.
2006-11-07 13:05:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to the people involved in the relationship to WORK at keeping the passion in their relationship. If you're not up to WORKING to keep passion in your relationship alive then you shouldn't get into them to begin with.
2006-11-07 13:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋