This woman dated this man for 11 months and had to get an order of protection. She can not get him out of her mind, he is the cause of her nightmares, and high stress. She does not want to ever see him or hear his voice, but he haunts her.
2006-11-07 12:41:56 · 7 answers · asked by drcc_308 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THERAPY! It sounds corny, but I have found therapy to be extremely helpful once you find the right therapist to guide you. Self-help books and therapy. I wish you the best. I know it's not easy.
2006-11-07 12:47:03 · answer #1 · answered by toolate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're asking how?
She needs to get out, move if she has to. It's just like breaking up but with many more strings attached.
I would suggest a group therapy session. While it may sound silly, it really can help. She needs to give herself time. Right now she needs her friends and family to be there for her.
2006-11-07 20:43:54 · answer #2 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her talked to a counselor-sounds like she needs help, try talking to some good friend like you and may be have her listen to music or watch some comedy in the evening so she wont think of this horrible person. I hope she is safe -have her keep other people around her at all times for protection.
2006-11-07 20:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get help, you have to talk about the reason why this still haunts you and reverse all that he is planted in your head, seek therapy, it doenst mean your crazy, trust me, you will be happy you did it hwen you can sleep well at night.
2006-11-07 20:45:26 · answer #4 · answered by Olivia N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a life .. go on dates ..if you cant do that just yet then, go out with friends. get a job, if you don't have one. then when you get ur first check go out and buy ur self something real nice that makes you feel sexy... if none of that works then just think of all the horrible mean things he said and did to you...
2006-11-07 21:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats really sad and all I can say is pray for her and God will lead her for He, the Almighty Spirit, knows what to do!
2006-11-07 20:45:41 · answer #6 · answered by Jumper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it to Jesus.
He's the only one who can heal the heart and mind.
2006-11-07 20:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋