I just wanted to know what you guys would do in my situation. I liked this guy alot we had alot of things in common really seemed like he liked me until I told him my sister had a thing for him. I asked him because I wanted to know if he did like her or not. Turns out they are starting to get to know each other and im just breaking apart. He has no idea that i liked him and my sister supposedly didnt know. My sister always said that things like that between sisters are unfrogivable but since she didnt know that i liked him its now ok for her to date him.. Howshould i react to this and how can i live seeing them together? any way of geting over something like that?
2006-11-07 12:20:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Most people think its ur fault for never telling him that you liked him but you could have been scared of what his answer was soo you waited & then ur sister decides to talk to him...Mmmm so in my opinion i think you should definently tell them about it [[privately to each]].. If he doesnt understand or just doesnt give a hoot, you sister miight and if they both dont care? Then whatever u can prolly do much better anyways. & if it was mee I would get pissed at my sister doesnt matter if u didnt tell her earlier. Just the fact that u like him matters...
2006-11-07 12:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by Alessandra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying.....you made your bed now lie in it.
You never made it clear to him that you liked him. You introduced him to your sister by telling him she likes him. If course he will be interested, any man likes to know a girl likes him.
The only wrong here is that you did not stick up for yourself.
One option you could try......tell one of your friends about this and have them mention it to him. No way to know what would happen but who knows. Maybe he liked you but because you put him on your sister that is where he went.
You really have a problem if your sister likes him allot. If so you will just have to live with it.
2006-11-07 20:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of saying to him that your sis likes him, you should have told him, YOU like him, now is a real problem, you should talk to your sis, and explain the situation, maybe she doesn´t like him that much, and you could make your move, or if she really likes him, you would have to deal with it
A sister is worth a lot more than a guy, believe me
2006-11-07 20:26:36 · answer #3 · answered by gone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, thats big. maybe what you should do, is let it be for a while and if you TRULY CANNOT STAND IT talk to your sister, after all she should care for you and have her know you would do the same. maybe let her get the so called "thrill" of being with him and then after it over and u talked to her and she decides -if she does- to break up with him it wont be so bad for u feeling guilty. all im saying is talk to your sister and if that doesnt work, talk to the guy, if hes your real friend maybe he would understand
good luck hope this helps!
2006-11-07 20:27:28 · answer #4 · answered by kiran48312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd smack myself upside the head and tell myself how stupid I was.
What you experienced is a consequence of not being open and honest with him from the start. Had you told him that you liked him early, you would have avoided the present stress.
Just move on and learn from your mistake. Communication is the key to ALL relationships, from family, to friends, to romance!
2006-11-07 20:24:49 · answer #5 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you screwed up so live with it and learn
2006-11-07 20:23:31 · answer #6 · answered by acierman2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM, Trust me..... If he likes you more and you don't tell him.... you will me miserable about it.
2006-11-07 20:24:36 · answer #7 · answered by Dead.....Alive.....Neither 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋