ok well theres this guy friend that i kinda have a crush on he he likes me too but im not aloud to date him because he four years older than me what do i do??
2006-11-07 12:14:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should learn to use periods and other puncuation marks in your sentences and questions. So how old is the guy, 14? You are totally not ready for boyfriends yet.
2006-11-07 12:18:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if your like in your twenties and up, that's perfectly fine and i can see nothing wrong with it. Since you didn't give an age and are asking this question, i'm assuming you're in your teens. If you are 14 and he is 18 ( 13-17;15-19) then i'd have to go with no. I go with a guy who is 2 and 1/2 years older (15-17) so i'm not trying to be hippocritical, but there's a much bigger difference in your case. Be friends and hang out together. I totally understand your situation and he's probably a great guy you trust, but look at the bigger picture for now, like :7th grade and a junior.....its lone your decision. Have fun and be safe.
2006-11-07 12:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never said how old you were. If you are over 20 years old, I do not see no problem. But if you are a teenager, I do have a problem with that. These guys are older, and they demand more of you, and this is the time for you to be having fun, and concentrating on school. You do not need to be getting so serious in a relationship. But as I said if you are old enough then age is just a number!
2006-11-07 12:23:48 · answer #3 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 yrs elder and u r irritating? u have been given to be kiddin! hear, m no longer an authority at family members yet with my studies i will make it easier to realize that there's no longer something incorrect in loving somebody like that. As for attracting him, first examine out if he's already committed (or worse married!) . so as which you do no longer finally end up ruining your existence to boot as somebody else's. If he remains a unmarried than it relatively is going to no longer be confusing for u. ONE suggestion: - do no longer attempt to act AS somebody else for buying HIM. THATS THE WORST MISTAKE human beings MAKE IN LOVE. BE WHAT you're.
2016-10-15 12:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my boyfriend is 4 years older than me too, but I still go out with him even though my mom doesn't let me. I just don't tell her or see him after/before school. If your parents are more flexible try talkin to them about it. 4 years is not really that big of a difference.
2006-11-07 12:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by Polina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you are only allowed to date tiny babies or what?
Since when did they start to orbid a girl to date an older than her guy?
2006-11-07 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait a few years and then see how you feel -- it is a serious comment --- 4 years after 20 becomes a minor age difference
2006-11-07 12:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to know each other on a platonic level until you reach an age where you are permitted to date him. Best Wishes!
2006-11-07 12:17:48 · answer #8 · answered by rmdybles30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since your not allowed to date him, i'd say your under age 18.
why not just continue to be friends with him and when you turn 18 if there's still an interest than go for it.
2006-11-07 12:18:35 · answer #9 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when you get a little older and he is still single ,see if you like him the same as you do now,it is important to respect your parents decision they said no for a reason,which i can relate to them.i have a daughter as well and i would have to say no as well if it was her.
2006-11-07 12:21:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋