so i asked her out and everything and i really really like her but a lot of people are saying that she will dump me for another guy, and i dont want to belive them because i really like her, but when you hear the same thing over and over from different people, its hard to know who to belive, help please
2006-11-07 11:08:14 · 15 answers · asked by john m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's always a risk . . . does she have a history of dumping people? has she given you any indication that she might dump you?
if not, give her the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-07 11:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People talk, People are jealous. The only thing for sure is that you wont know what will happen until it happens. SO have fun , date this girl you like , but if she does dump you for another guy , the hell with her and move on! I say have fun while you can
2006-11-07 11:12:14 · answer #2 · answered by CookFrNW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how u feel but the best thing u can do is ask her i was told not to long ago that when some1 points a finger at some1 als there r 3 more pointing back at them also if people r not happy with there life they will do anything to make some1 als feel the same as them just do what u think is right 4 u
2006-11-07 11:13:59 · answer #3 · answered by baby_lovenm69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her dont listen to what your friends have to say and you will only get a honest answer from her.
ps
i was in ur situation a couple yrs ago and i know how you feel my friends did the same thing :)
2006-11-07 11:19:00 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Laura♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you that afraid of getting dumped? Dont believe everything you hear, they might just be jealous. I would just go for it and do what I would want to do. Have fun
2006-11-07 11:11:34 · answer #5 · answered by kris10dice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would confront her about.
-see what happened for me was this guy likes me but people told me he would probably just cheat on me like all his other girlfriends so i never dated him. But we have been best friends for like 4 years, i love him to death as a friend and he loves me back more than a friend... guess what hes the one who asked me out!!!
2006-11-07 11:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by MonkeyBrains 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her just don't ask her like you already think she's guilty that will just bug her more, trust me, if you fell to uncomfortable to ask her then ask her best friend, she would know and even if her best friend goes back and tells her that you asked then your gf might think its cute that you'd get so worked up over a couple of rumors, if it is a rumor.
2006-11-07 11:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by brooke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with your gut. if i was u, i would keep tryin to get at her. and then talk about me getting dumped. then work ur way into a TOTAL MAKE OUT SESSION! BOOYA!
2006-11-07 11:11:46 · answer #8 · answered by boys <3 me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem
i just gave the guy i chance i didnt care wat people said about him i wanted to find out for my self,,, but in ur case if ur really good friends r telling u that mayb u shuld listen to them but if its random people telling u this mayb they just dont want u guys to go out ,,dont listen to them
2006-11-07 11:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by blair w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friends ALWAYS do that..except about the guys..it doesnt ALWAYS mean that she is going to dump you..if she is your girlfiend you just need to get up to her and ask her...
2006-11-07 11:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by FredDIEMerCURyLOVer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋