so he has had a few girlfriends and I don't want to hurt his gf feelings although we r not close...and there is this other guy who I like who is also going out with my friend(best friend) and this is their second time dating...and I really want to go out wih hm too....i would go with either what should I do with both issues!HELP!
2006-11-07 11:02:11 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow girl you have some problems.. those guys are going out with your friends, if you do make your move on them you'll prove to them exactly how loyal you are. and you just can't do that shyt to a friend, if you really do think of them as your friends.
and if they ever do break up you should talk to your friend first before making your move on her ex.
it's just a unwritten rule that you don't go out with your friends' boyfriends/exes. unless you really do want the drama.
2006-11-07 11:05:44 · answer #1 · answered by ExoticEyes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i find that to be very wrong to do to a friend, close or not. Or anyone if they haven't done it to you. But if you are going to do it, first, make up your mind about which you like before you go around ruining relationships. Or just wait. OR find another guy. There are too many in the world for you to be trying to steal one from a friend. You're just closed minded, stupid, and not a very good friend if you're EVEN thinking of 'dragging him to you'.
On top of that, I think you're a total little whore.
2006-11-07 11:07:57 · answer #2 · answered by sspghh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I'm so glad you're not my friend. Shees with a friend like you, who needs enemies. How would you feel if your friends wanted to steal your boyfriend? Get a grip girl, stay away from other people's boyfriends before you end up with no friends at all. On the other hand, maybe you should go for them, because if they come scampering after you then your friends are well rid of both of you!
2006-11-07 11:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by salstick 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why can't you find your own man? y do u want to pick at the boyfriends that your friends already have like a damn buzzard? why do you think you could just come in and break up these relationships in hopes that the guy runs off with you? you know you'll lose your man the same way you got him, meaning some other "cheap trick" will come and take him from you. it's called KARMA! what goes around, comes around!!!!!!
2006-11-07 11:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should never go out with someone else's boyfriend when they are with someone, especially when it's a best friend. It's not easy, and it's not right. You wont feel very good about yourself if you do, so just wait ... if you like him that much then waiting will be well worth it.
2006-11-07 11:05:39 · answer #5 · answered by Arizona 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u have to chose someone go for thew girl you arent really friends with rather than hurtingur bff and her relationship ok? If that doesn't satisfy ur craving for boys then GO OUT TO THE WORLD! theres nothing to lose right? If ur young im sure youll get some hunks.
2006-11-07 11:06:12 · answer #6 · answered by *StarFashion* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey just let it go. And you guys are being awfully harsh on her. Listen you're not a bad person for liking someone your best friend is going out with but let that go and take the other guy. Wait like people say but don't tke ur best friend's guy!
2006-11-07 11:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by theangelicomega 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u like ur friend's bf are u sure ur not just jealous that she has a bf n u dont? i think ur just jealous that they both have bf's n u dont boyfriend stealers are the worst why would u want to get a bf for probably like less then 2 weeks and lose ur friends n any possible friendships
2006-11-07 11:05:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. who do you love more. Your best friend or the guy? Who would be there for you if you ever got your heart broken? What would happen if you and the guy ever broke up? Where would you be then? Ask yourself.
2006-11-07 11:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about u stop being so selfish?
Why are u going after other women's boyfriends?
Go get your own. Get a life!
P.S. R u seriously even considering your best friend's man? Wow. U suck as a friend.
2006-11-07 11:05:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋